Hey All,

I am sure this question must have been asked earlier as well. But I wanted to get your perspective on this.

ME:

I am 25 years old, live in Mid-Town NYC, and grew up in India. I go out almost every weekend with the same set of friends( Indian -Americans) who are in serious LTR. Each time I go out I see these beautiful white women who look almost perfect.

My internal mind pushes me so hard to approach and talk to them but the following things stop me from it. I want to understand if this is me being a P**y and limiting myself or is this the reality:

  • I feel like these women look really good. I am above average looking but I feel like I would get shot down the very instant I tried to approach given I don't meet their look standard
  • I am still maximizing my looks ( getting my teeth, acne, hair and body fixed). Do you think I should approach them after these are in a good place ~6 months from today, given I would have more internal confidence.?
  • I still have an indian accent, would this be a major sticking point?
  • I don't know what to open with/ continue the conversation etc given I did not grow up in the USA.

AND finally the biggest insecurity I have is my age I am 25 and I feel like I am already too old to cold approach these young and beautiful women in clubs?

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Any tips you guys can share as this really fucks with my head every day as I so want to approach but these things hold me back majorly?

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Sincerely,

A really insecure Indian guy