Guys would accept an apology from someone who ghosted you?

NaijaBoy_323 · 2022-05-09T04:13:50+00:00

Can’t say for sure because every guy is different, but if I were him personally, I’d accept your apology but I would also friend zone you because of how you went about it. I’m not sure what he said to you to make you feel the way you did, but you did mention that he didn’t give you the reassurance that you were seeking, so that’s kinda understandable as to why you felt unsure of his intentions. However…

up to me whether or not to trust him.

Dude gave you a solid answer IMO and honestly, he’s right. It is up to you whether or not to trust him, or in other words he basically said “actions speak louder than words.” If I had to guess, he wanted you to see for yourself what type of guy he was rather than him giving you empty handed promises, but I can’t say for sure. Again, I’m just guessing.

So I blocked him.

Unless he said something completely outright crazy or insulting to you, then I don’t see why blocking him was necessary especially if he tried communicating with you (even if his way of communicating isn’t the best, I have to admit), hell, I’ve had women block me for simply being respectful and honest with them, only for some of them to later come back trying to get a second chance with me. Again, I either friend zoned these girls or kept them as FWB (friends with no benefits, meaning we have sex and then you get tf out of my place, no affection, no pillow talk, no emotional support, for damn sure no monogamous relationship etc) which is something a lot of us guys do when girls piss us off so be prepared if you two do come back into contact and he demotes you to a booty call. So how I see it is this. Blocking someone who didn’t deserve it is a “fuck you” type of action IMO. Again, actions speak louder than words. Maybe he did some “fuck you” actions to you that you didn’t state, I don’t know, but if he didn’t do such things, then you blocking him just because he didn’t give you the answer you wanted to hear is definitely a “fuck you” action IMO. Now will he forgive you? Only one way to find out and that’s to reach out to him. Maybe he will, maybe he won’t. At the end of the day, if it doesn’t work out, the only thing you can do is to hold your head high and to keep it pushing. Also, learn from the experience.

Contango6969 · 2022-05-09T04:24:58+00:00

I probably wouldnt. Ghosting is one thing but blocking is another. It feels like more of a low blow to me to block someone. I dont even block people I hate lol

2022-05-09T04:55:19+00:00

Probably not. Do better with the next person.

Sea_Particular_9086 · 2022-05-09T04:27:08+00:00

Idk in a sense, he could have moved on. If you okay with accepting rejection, which alot of women are not-then you have nothing to lose since you already blocked him

This also potentially raises red flags, like what will stop you from doing it again. Accepting apologies or not, because you have to look at it from both sides.

If he did it to you, you wouldn’t have liked it or not. You would probably write him off.

Ducharbaine · 2022-05-09T05:59:40+00:00

Wait, this happens? I thought that once we have been thrown away, we are never thought of again, forgotten within seconds.

Must just be me then.

2022-05-09T05:40:48+00:00

My friend overseas thought I still liked her more than just friends (we have history). She blocked me for a month before coming back and apologizing saying she felt awful for blocking me. We spoke a bit and had proper closure, but I told her I didn’t want to keep talking to her on a daily basis like we used to. Your guy would definitely appreciate proper closure even if it ends that way.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-09T06:33:19+00:00

Not at all.

SwimComfortable7465 · 2022-05-09T04:01:10+00:00

I mean... do you really want to?

Also hard to say. Usually guys like these are pretty receptive but there's like a 30%-35% chance he'll still accept you

AceFiveSuited · 2022-05-09T04:41:17+00:00

Just leave it. Theres plenty of other guys out there trust me.

Acrobatic-Solution70 · 2022-05-09T04:00:20+00:00

No not if he is a decent person and you were genuinely apologetic.

Frosty-Parsley9140 · 2022-05-09T03:59:53+00:00

More then likely he will accept ur apology. Try not to go into to much detail and don’t over do the apology. Keep it simple feel him out. But more then likely you will be fine

cadiuspan · 2022-05-09T14:23:59+00:00

nah from my experience people who ghosted you only to try to re enter are usually playing games

FrequentPizza8663 · 2022-05-09T15:13:34+00:00

I am always willing to talk to someone and hear them out, but that doesn't mean everything will be hunky dorey and go back to normal. I would forgive, but I wouldn't forget and I certainly wouldn't see them romantically again.

Title	Guys would accept an apology from someone who ghosted you?
Author	Lwimpfhy
Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	May 9, 2022 3:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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