Brutal truth: if you are a man, no one cares about your feelings.

I don't care about your feelings

No one here really cares about your feelings

The girls who keep rejecting you obviously don't care about your feelings.

People only really care about your actions - what you do - and their own feelings.

When you make this paradigm shift of ignoring your feelings and instead focusing soley on your actions, their results, and how they make other people feel, game suddenly starts to click.

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If there is one common denominator of guys who cry here about sucking with women, it's that they have a myopic focus on their own feelings. Again, no one, and I mean no one, cares. And it shows in their results.

Next time your out with a chick, do the opposite of what you normally do. Instead of focusing on her actions and your feelings, flip it around. Focus on her feelings and your actions.

This is the way.