Over the past decade, I’ve mastered the art of womanizing.

Most of my friends have also spent years galivanting.

You won’t find these ideas on YouTube. (Almost anything too practical got scrubbed years ago.) They’re just notes and ideas shared between bros.

Here is the collective wisdom I’ve gathered on how to pick up women, manage relationships, and create a sigma-male warlord lifestyle.

Quick warning:

Some of these tactics may be construed as manipulative or toxic.

But they work.

Use with caution and discretion.

1 - Don’t try to ‘build attraction.’

Be playful, pull back, and let her chase.

Aim for respect and awe, not attraction.

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2 - With any woman, you will naturally play some sort of role.

Be a mentor or lover.

Never settle as her friend or provider. (And never ever be the orbiter)

Set the frame early to avoid the friend or beta zone.

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3 - Women crave a man who brings a new world with him.

Show her experiences that her peers can’t match.

Be an experience that other guys can’t replicate.

Be her gateway out of mundane boredom.

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4 - Never assume she’s not interested.

If she’s in front of you, take it as an IOI.

Test the waters, if she doesn’t pull away, assume you can move forward.

Escalate smartly, and you’ll be surprised how easily she says yes.

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5 - Never try to close or move things forward when she’s noncompliant. You’ll only encounter stronger resistance.

Get her in a good mood before trying to set up a date, making a move, etc.

‘Change her mood, not her mind,’ is universally applicable.

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6 - A busy, interesting life makes you magnetic.

Have hobbies that challenge you.

Dump time-wasting distractions.

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7 - Flip the dynamic.

Frame her as the one who is more interested.

Never come across as chasing her.

Never be needy.

It’s better to lose the girl than to lose power in the relationship.

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8 - Always keep your place sex-ready.

Drinks on hand. Chocolate or cake in the fridge. Condoms in easy reach.

Keep your place clean.

Understand that your place tells her a story about you.

Make sure it’s a good one.

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9 - Women are sensitive to emotion and vibe.

She’ll notice your emotional state before you open your mouth.

But don’t use that as an excuse to not act.

You gain ease and have fun through taking action, not by waiting nervously until you feel ready.

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10 - To meet attractive women, you have to be where they are - cafes, near universities, festivals, night clubs, busy streets, etc.

Big cities have energy and keep you anonymous.

Small towns keep you inhibited and kill your dating options.

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11 - Don’t try to enter her world.

Don’t hang out with her friends or do the same things she does with her peers.

Instead, bring her into your world. This makes you an object of excitement and value.

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12 - Train her.

Reward investment and compliance from her.

Punish bad behavior by ignoring her and withdrawing attention.

Create a dynamic where she realizes your presence is not unconditional.

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Read the rest here: https://dariusthehunter.substack.com/p/25-pleighboi-principles