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Was I being to much of a simp during those text messages which she hasn’t responded to in a day? We already had a “date “set up for next week before those text messages but she kept texting me and I think I ruin it

spinbothways

April 21, 2022
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/r/seduction

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Title Was I being to much of a simp during those text messages which she hasn’t responded to in a day? We already had a “date “set up for next week before those text messages but she kept texting me and I think I ruin it
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spinbothways

Upvotes 6
Comments 18
Date April 21, 2022 11:16 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/u90b1p/was_i_being_to_much_of_a_simp_during_those_text/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/was-i-being-to-much-of-a-simp-during-those-text.1261492
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Comments

[–]MO_drps_knwldg 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Holy shit you Chatty Cathy, look at your side versus hers. Chill out dude

[–]bandsupjay 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

😭

[–]Acceptable-Sand-8011 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Bro I hope all those text were not yours. Way to much texting phone is only to set dates and maybe a lil bs. U prob turned her way off. Just leave it alone.

[–]spinbothways[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I was going to leave it at that. But she kept texting me after we set it up. So I was just reciprocating her energy: I wasn’t not going to ghost her or act cold before the date

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Just because she's texting you doesn't mean you have to respond to every bit of content she hits you with every single time. I get the sense that you're not comfortable letting some of this stuff just sit and somehow feel the need to acknowledge every single thing she says.

In addition, if you're genuinely interested in what kind of workout she's doing, that's fair enough. But I doubt it and if so, don't just ask things because you feel you have to. Part of success with women is treating them like human beings rather than pedestalizing them and their every move. Teasing, being challenging and leaving space should also be tools in your toolbox. You're a romantic prospect not a friend and this is the vibe that you need to think more about.

Right now you're in a situation where you're trying to keep up these long conversations until your date. In my experience, this is not sustainable. It can kill interest and mystery and you might even end up saying something unflattering. I'm not suggesting you go completely silent either. But if you guys are meeting, say, next Thursday I'd scale back a bit. It's totally legitimate to just leave some texts that don't need a reply hanging. Or just proactively end a conversation: "Haha sounds fun. I'm about to head out too let's chat later!" And then circle back in 2 or so days. Sometimes she might end up circling back too. She has a life and so should you.

[–]spinbothways[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks bro

[–]bandsupjay 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Salute to u for reaching out for help tho get a next girl and show us

[–]bandsupjay 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only read the first paragraph but i second this. Exactly what i said just be yourself, women like that.

[–]bandsupjay 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don’t reciprocate her energy just have your own energy. Hers isnt always accurate and u just gotta be the man and have ur own vibe u feel me? Thats usually how you get em

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wait so in your opinion is texting only to set up dates a green flag for a guy you’re newly seeing?

[–]nevertextgoodnight 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Rip

Don't contact her till she hits you back

[–]dinosaur123556 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Text for dates nothing else bro. Compliment her in person. Make her crave that affection. Don’t do it digitally make it in person.

[–]betterme2610 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I tend to be a long in the tooth texter. My rule is to try and have her text be the last. Tends to keep the balance for me. If there’s a spot where you can disengage, absolutely do it. It’s hard to undertext, it’s easy to overtext

[–]bandsupjay 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Too overly invested

[–]poly_nerdy_panda 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

call her man WTF

[–]whale_sports 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those are boring ass messages.

[–]Shakur2c 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're killing her anticipation by being so available. Stay busy

[–]Major_Ad_779 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude all you have to do is make a date and don’t hit her up until the day comes

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