Hello, I'm a man who hasn't had much experience with women. I've only ever had one partner, and we're now divorced. I took a vow seriously, although she doesn't.

So, I'm hesitant to ask a woman out on a casual date for fun, but I'm not sure where to begin because I'm a 40-year-old average-looking guy.

I tried tinder and other dating sites, but I received no likes for months. So, do you have any advice on how I should go about finding a casual date?