so today after class i told myself that im going to talk to a chick, ive said that before so i wasnt sure if it would actually happen but i felt a little more determined than in the past. i put on some decent clothes, put a little cologne and headed out. theres a dead mall around the corner so i headed there first, didnt really see anyone, one girl i saw behind a counter i didnt approach because she seemed busy and maybe i was nervous. so kept walking around and headed outside. it was at this point i told myself i wouldnt go back in until i did a proper approach.

so i walked around some corners along the mall, still noone who id like so i then circle back to the mall again. walked in, sat down quick to make a phone call, again i saw another girl in tmobile but there were a few people in there so didnt feel confident. staggered around, decided to go into a empty store and i chatted up this older woman behind the counter. i guess maybe to prime myself for later, had a decent conversation and left.

hung outside the gym for a bit, still nothing so i headed back down to starbucks. i saw a girl in there that looks fairly good but it seemed like she was with friends, so i went outside and she actually came out right after me. the only thing i could muster was 'hey' then she said 'hey' you look pretty! lmao then she said thank you and walked off. i atleast learned that starbucks is a pretty nice spot to see some good looking girls, so i then debated if that counted as a approach.

i decided it wasnt and turned down a street that in the past ive seen a few chicks that looked good but never pressed the envelope. and then i saw someone who literally stopped so and kinda took break leaning against the building. i saw my prey and zeroed in, i even had a conversation starter as she was wearing shorts in 40 degree weather.

so i told her "i saw you from down the street and i said ot myself she must be cold" and pretty much had a conversation, learned shes from nh and actually lives fairly close which is a win. i told her where i was from etc. got the number, she was a chubbier girl but thats what im into anyway

there were still some missed opportunities but i feel like itll slowly become natural so i can approach nearly anyone, no matter whos around etc. i thank this sub for the inspiration and also tips

one thing i will say, for anyone who still is not there yet with approaching, just do not jerk off for a while.