Is it possible to just not be meant for girls or be successful with them no matter how hard u try or how hard u try to improve etc?

mightymite88 · 2022-03-26T20:27:29+00:00

Go give it a shot and you'll see its not so hard. You're overthinking yourself to death my dude

Impressive_Sport_713 · 2022-03-26T20:54:10+00:00

Sounds like youre forcing it. And thats never good. Sure you might get some results but its not what you might expect. Like select for likes. Dont force these things

passengerpigeon20 · 2022-03-26T21:33:43+00:00

If you meet the "universal" minimum requirements for physical appearance that most girls have, you CAN learn to succeed no matter how bad your game is now. If you don't, you need to either get surgery or go abroad to a country where the girls still have reasonable standards.

SpinCity07 · 2022-03-26T21:10:03+00:00

If you have that belief, then yes. You are however limiting yourself from any potential you have. You can’t know what kind of potential you have, but you can always better it. Also there’s no real way to predict the future. You could have someone who’s interested in you only to be denied because you don’t believe you should be with a girl. There is a certain dance for sure to learn. If you give up though, you’re going to miss out on relationships. They are important because you learn a lot about yourself and different ways you could improve yourself. It really is all in your head to play small and protected. At the end of the day it’s your life. You can only make this choice to empower yourself or listen to the ego and deny yourself. I believe any women would want to be with someone who has things going for them and that they have found contentment in their life. It’s not easy but, just dedicate yourself to self-care. Talk to a therapist about the issues you’re having with yourself so you can at least on some level work through them to get to a place of trusting yourself and seeing it’s ok to put yourself out there.

It’s your choice to either work for it or just deny yourself. Denying yourself usually ends up in a dark place where you either get back on track or give up. The choice is yours.

OkYou2738 · 2022-03-26T21:10:41+00:00

Definitely sounds like you’re too in your head. Sometimes things happen when you don’t expect it and for one don’t believe in “meant to be”. Chance is a fickle bitch

hakeem15 · 2022-03-26T22:48:11+00:00

It may take you longer than you initially thought but if you keep trying you'll get there. I remember thinking that way a few years ago and then all of a sudden I couldn't believe my success. Sometimes I'm in a drought and I slip back into that old way of thinking but I try to immediately drop that bad mentality.

You can have zero success for a while and then all of a sudden you cross paths with a newly single gorgeous girl who vibes well with you. Keep working on yourself, keep being social, keep talking to girls, keep improving/adjusting, keep moving forward and it'll work out.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-03-26T21:06:25+00:00

There are some people that will never make it. But most men who think this are not in that category. I don't know anything about you so there's no way for me to comment on you and your chances in particular.

2022-03-26T20:43:45+00:00

By success what do you mean? Having a bunch of side hoes or having a gf?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-27T00:05:42+00:00

It’s not about trying hard it’s about knowing what the fuck you are doing… You can try super hard, but if you don’t even have social intelligence and social skills or what the phases of the game are, then it won’t matter how hard you try.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-03-27T01:53:34+00:00

What have you done to improve yourself? You in great shape? You know how to dress? You're socially calibrated and know how to converse? You know any game?

Title	Is it possible to just not be meant for girls or be successful with them no matter how hard u try or how hard u try to improve etc?
Author	throwawayforfun1166
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	March 26, 2022 8:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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