Gave a guy all kinds of signals and waited for him in my car to come out an talk to me, but he wouldn't. What could I have done better to make work?

Real_Vents · 2022-02-26T05:53:07+00:00

Why not, actually talk to him like a person?

pokemonpokemonmario · 2022-02-26T07:10:16+00:00

"Is he an idiot or something"

Lmao women literally want us to read their mind. Why not just fucking walk up and speak to him yourself??????????

PondScum420 · 2022-02-26T06:03:46+00:00

I literally never approach women in cafes, I don’t want them to feel like harassed or bothered. I think most men feel the same way. Plus, not many opportunities to talk unless you’re like in line together or sitting close

ThatGuy_Nick9 · 2022-02-26T06:10:32+00:00

Even if he was interested, do you understand how much trouble a man can get into for following a woman out to her car these days? Like, from his perspective, he sees you looking, maybe he’s interested, but he’s thinking pros and cons, getting logical, so much can go bad if he comes out to talk to you and the best case scenario, the one where you’re actually waiting for him to come talk to you, is the only one where he’s not getting blasted on social media.

Point is, the age of playing hard to get, the push and pull game is over. If you want a guys attention, you gotta get into his personal space: next in line, sitting next to, “accidentally” bump into, or simply just say, “hey, I like you hair. Can I get you number?” Or something

Narrow_Sea_8505 · 2022-02-26T06:41:45+00:00

why didnt you go up to him and talk to him lol thats on you

VorpalPaperclip · 2022-02-26T05:53:13+00:00

He could be married, gay, whatever.

You could also try walking up and say “hi, what’s your phone number?”

2022-02-26T07:12:38+00:00

I hate to be the asshole here, but you said he looked at your friend, and in the parking lot he looked at you, but only after you looked at him.

You are not the only lady looking at him like that. He was just not into you and a bit creeped out by you starting at him from the inside of your car.

He gets it.

TheUnsecure · 2022-02-26T13:32:16+00:00

If anything you are kinda weird as most women prefer to meet strangers at public places in case of getting assaulted, you should be more careful, imho.

That_Ad4734 · 2022-02-27T01:48:25+00:00

“Like, I walked by him..” lmao if a girl walking by me means she is interested, then damn like 20 women throw themselves at me every day

Individual-Pin-9980 · 2022-07-29T23:54:11+00:00

This is what happens when women lead to much men on, they ignore the attention seekers lol

Title	Gave a guy all kinds of signals and waited for him in my car to come out an talk to me, but he wouldn't. What could I have done better to make work?
Author	Anna_tmson
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	February 26, 2022 5:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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