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mrjasjit · 2022-01-31T01:22:32+00:00

Girls are going to want to talk/text more often then guys so they can figure out who you are and your interest level.

2022-01-31T02:18:02+00:00

ITS A TRAP. Dont bite the bait.

thabat · 2022-01-31T01:07:43+00:00

Don't. It's a trap.

Say I rather see you and talk. If we text then we have less to talk about when you're here.

MrStallion22 · 2022-01-31T02:02:59+00:00

If you’re already dating and fucking the girl then yeah you should be sending the occasional text asking how she is, what’s she been up to etc.

If it’s before the first date then no, texting should just be for initial pleasantries then setting up the date. If she’s super keen on messaging at this stage, just take hours to reply, she’ll get the message lol

EDIT: no pun intended 😅

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-01-31T02:11:04+00:00

Girls tell me I should text them more instead of only to set up a date. Advice?

Do exactly what they're asking you to do lol. Don't go overboard with the texting, but don't become a ghost as soon as you set up the date. Girls want to know you're a normal human being who is able to maintain a conversation and not some weirdo who only texts to set up dates. That advice was valid back when we all had flip phones and had to press the number keys to craft text messages, but it's no longer relevant today. Having conversations over text is normal now and you should be doing it. You'll get flaked on way less if you do.

EscapeVelocity83 · 2022-01-31T01:36:38+00:00

Tell them you arnt theor text buddy. Next... Women are great at milking a guys need for sex to satisfy their need to feel attractive withou ever fucking with a guy

2022-01-31T03:52:35+00:00

I see a lot telling you to not do it, it’s a trap blah blah. Truth of matter is this in 2022 that using text only to set up dates shit won’t work, it’s outdated, you run the risk of them losing interest or starting to feel unsure about you. You don’t have to be taking to them all day but a lil communication in between dates is important

2022-01-31T02:37:19+00:00

I hate texting I’d rather talk on the phone or have a face to face convo, people who just straight up text only are weird

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-01-31T02:59:31+00:00

The advice is keep it minimal, not non existent and it mostly applies before the first or second meetup, after it flows as it is. It's a budding relationship if some kind.

If they request it, give em a little...just don't go nuts. Don't spend more than like ten minutes a day. You have to be normal but not needy, somewhat scarce and not their girlfriend.

And do not ignore it if they initiate, but keep it short.

Impressive_Sport_713 · 2022-01-31T05:07:32+00:00

Its annoying. But it is legit for the most part. Majority of girls after a date will ghost you after. And a lot of the times wont even respond to a simple "hello"

A girl wouldnt have any interest in you if she hasnt ghost you yet after the date!

krzjasn87 · 2022-02-01T00:31:43+00:00

If they want to talk to you more and you prefer face to face than just let them or one of them know that, they deff want to hear more from ya but it’s downs have to be over text

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