I take care of my personal hygiene quite often. I usually dress very nice, sometimes quite casual. I'm a hard worker. I know what I want in life. I'm super friendly and positive, usually upfront and communicative. Women say I'm great to be around because I'm so gentle. Pretty much everywhere I go, I make new friends or get into a good convo with someone enough to be acquaintances. All of these things, and yet I can't find many girls who are into me and wanna mess around. I mainly only ever get as far as friends. Am I putting out a "too friendly" energy? If so, how the hell do I become more of a mysterious and not-too-nice guy, since that's what women go for apparently, without turning into someone I'm not?