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rofnacla · 2021-12-27T09:42:20+00:00

As an Asian man in the west it will be hard to date any woman at all. Opposite for Asian women, they will have an easy time and choose whatever eye color they want

Asperger1001 · 2021-12-27T06:40:34+00:00

Racial streotype exists? Yes! So you should give up from the beginning by seeing yourself as doomed? Definitely not, dont worry about things you cant change, focus on things that you can.

Main_Performer4701 · 2021-12-27T07:41:57+00:00

Lmao buddy sorry to get you down but it’s not about the difference in eye colour. Also ask yourself why you love blue eyed white women so much when it is an objective fact they won’t like you. You literally answered your own post lol. Stop putting women who don’t like you back on a pedestal. The more you idolize them the less they will liek you. As a fellow Asian your post and comments read as a classic sign of self hate and white worshipping. Stop.

To be clear, it’s not your fault you’re not their type so don’t blame yourself. Only thing you need to change is to quit thinking they’re special. You’re trying to seek confirmation bias here and it reads extremely cringy.

MeWuzBornIn1990 · 2021-12-27T10:53:43+00:00

Sounds like you’re fetishizing these women and putting them on a pedestal.

JobRevolutionary946 · 2021-12-27T04:20:02+00:00

Opposites attract, join a class learning an asian language that you dont know. Those classes attract women who are interested in asian culture and thus asian men

Ok-Confidence-99 · 2021-12-27T08:13:56+00:00

As a F with blue eyes, I have no idea haha. I’ve never dated an Asian man, but I’m not opposed. I’ve dated men with both blue and brown eyes. I really have no preference. Nor does it seem to make any difference.

There is an U2 song however that does dictate “blue eyed boy gets a brown eyed girl” so.. make of that what you will

knightgod1177 · 2021-12-28T02:45:50+00:00

Goddamn dude, you have an unhealthy obsession over eye color. Eye color doesn’t determine anything, and there is no significance behind eye color either. People gravitate towards those who 1) look like them, and 2) have a similar culture. Eye color is an indeterminate feature.

Based on your post, you seem to have a fetish for blue eyed women. While there’s nothing inherently wrong with that, the problem arises when you specifically focus on women with blue eyes. Moreover, people don’t date one another based on eye color. It’s incredibly shallow to do so. So it’s extremely clear you’ve fetishized blue eyed females, and that’s exactly why they won’t find you attractive. I mean, what do you usually do when you meet a blue eyed woman? Your specificity towards blue eyed women also strongly hints at a desire to marry and have children with them, so your progeny can have desirable traits. Ultimately, your post leads me to believe you are ashamed to be Asian.

happirt · 2021-12-29T11:06:42+00:00

opposites attract but so does similarity. stop using tinder and try something else like meet them irl.

truthbomb999 · 2021-12-27T02:32:21+00:00

Dude what is your deal with blue eyes? There's more to dating than what someone's eyes look like.

Go to the gym and lift until you look like bolo young or Bruce Lee and quit complaining

It seems more difficult or near impossible to attract a pretty woman with blue eyes, especially on dating apps and tinder.

You deserve all the misfortune you get using dating apps as a man.

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