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Jhadiro · 2021-11-27T15:39:38+00:00

6 to 8 months

Mog_Melm · 2021-11-27T17:08:10+00:00

Maybe 9 months, lol

sikes999 · 2021-11-27T18:18:04+00:00

I had a casual relationship last 3 years but there was honesty involved. We both discussed neither of us wanted more and we enjoyed what we had.

iambabyshark · 2021-11-27T20:56:55+00:00

A year is a pretty big deal for a relationship so I'd end it before then. To be blunt, if you can't see a legitimate future with a girl after three months of dating you should end it

lateahalligator · 2021-11-27T18:42:35+00:00

Ive averaged about 4-6 months with variations in the mix. I'm kind of a dick tho. If girl starts any type of emotional neediness or excessive gf behavior I dip... made the mistake a couple times in beginning of trying to keep flings going when grl was getting attached. Never ends well.

2021-11-27T18:30:17+00:00

My last one was about 10 months.

rwalsh138 · 2021-11-28T06:05:10+00:00

2-4 months, from my experience.

TheTruth221 · 2021-11-28T08:14:09+00:00

few weeks to months depending on how often u update the rotation

mpower20 · 2021-11-28T14:51:59+00:00

2-5 invisalign trays

dad_david · 2021-11-28T04:43:44+00:00

A night.

GuaranteeOwn5108 · 2021-11-27T21:02:58+00:00

I’ve had them last years

2021-11-28T03:01:28+00:00

I think we all have our own ideas and boundaries of what an open relationship is. I understand where you're at on this. I never thought I was in a relationship with someone when we were so consistently inconsistent. You've given something to think about.

WheelIntelligent1354 · 2021-11-28T03:28:43+00:00

How long do you want to? Be clear about your intentions a few weeks into dating her, after that it's up to her.

tahiro86j · 2021-11-28T08:47:01+00:00

It takes about three months for you to be fully aware that you are now a citizen of the city you have moved to three months earlier.

Got my point?

sikes999 · 2021-11-28T09:48:10+00:00

I typically have a span of 4-5 months. However I've been able to extend that up to almost 12 months on average now with multiple people by telling the truth and being honest that I am someone for now, not forever. And with very clear boundaries.

The truth is scary, especially once the fun has just started. but it does set you free.

tahiro86j · 2021-11-28T10:35:32+00:00

Simon Sinek says that a relationship cannot happen in one day or in seven days. He also says that there’s something wrong with the relationship if a couple is not determined to stay together after seven years together.

In other words, it takes longer than seven days and less than seven years to form a deep meaningful relationship.

Given that we are talking about casual relationship here, I think it’s also fair to say that time isn’t so much a factor as long as you know the above rules and you have enough time to spare (which you often don’t because you get older anyway) and you can allow the relationship to transform from casual to serious. Otherwise, I would imagine that less than half a year in net together would signal a couple that they are not serious about each other.

iamfromtwitter · 2021-11-28T17:02:31+00:00

its 1 week, 3 month, 6 month, 1 year, after that its a long term relationship and will probably last for more years

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