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[–]One-Hedgehog4722 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol - how about you go to the store with her and observe how she interacts with you and the emotions you make her feel. Nothing else can be inferred from this short story, besides that she asked you out
[–]Brohammer53 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say yes anyways. Can't tell currently what she wants, all we know for certain is that she's asking for your company at a place she thinks is interesting to you.
You'd likely only spend a bit of time at the one store anyways. If you can coax her to a variety of places, that alone is an indication of interest, and gives her a chance to lay down hints. Until then just focus on enjoying yourself.
[–]TheWhiteWalkerSpeaks 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's just a friendly text. Don't get carried away. As someone else suggested, say yes and go with her. When you are with her just the two of you, flirt with her and see how she reacts. Don't come off too strong. You have to do it subtly other wise things will get awkward with the 3rd friend involved knows about this.
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hard to tell from what you're saying. You've hung out with mutual friends, so maybe she just wants to hang out as friends. Maybe she sees you as a potential romantic partner.
You won't know until you meet her at the shop. Let us know how it goes.
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[–]mexicanstud8312 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
She’s asking you out
[–]VDKay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How can I tell if she’s asking to hang out as a friend or whether she’s asking me out?
What difference does it make? Do you like her? Do you like her company? If yes, go to the vinyl shop, relax, and have a good time. If you both enjoy each other's company, suggest you two jump to a coffee shop or something, and carry on. See how you both like each other and if there is any sexual tension building. My guess is that you like this girl and you do want something sexual to happen. If so, going to the vinyl shop date is a perfect opportunity to find out
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
The good old “how can i read her mind” type of question. Just go and make something happen. We are not super heroes with the powers to read minds.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh yeah sure, general assumption number 1: She likes you as a friend
General assumption number 2: She like you as a lover.
Choose the one you like most because you will never know until you make shit happen in person.
[–]bojackhhorseman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wish a smoking hot girl would ask me out.
That will probably never happen.
:(
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