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[–]KingoftheNorth412 71 points72 points73 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Humans are generally “figuring life out” as they go. Anyone who makes goals and goes after them is achieving happiness through progress.
She IS valuable but so are YOU.
This is the way.
[–]Daniel_Himself 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the way
[–]lambocinnialfredo 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Babnikwithgame -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure
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[–]JacobMoogberg69 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Bro you are not there. If you still view people as valuable and not valuable, it means you still have issues with your own self worth.
[–]learndesigncreate 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Can you elaborate? I’m genuinely confused about your comment about not recognizing value, doesn’t everyone have their own perceived worth?
[–]JacobMoogberg69 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
If you have to point at a woman and say "she's got no value, she is a worthless whore who only relies on her looks, yeah she thinks she's hot because she's so hot, but guess what, she isn't because she didn't work for her hotness" that's nothing more than coping with your own lack of self worth.
A man who is secure in who he is and that he is the man he is supposed to be, doesn't feel the need to subtract from others in order to add to himself. He will not look at women as inherently valueless, as a matter of fact he hopes that when he approaches a woman she will prove that she is someone of value he wants to spend more time with.
[–]learndesigncreate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah okay yes I see your point and couldn’t agree more. Thanks for elaborating
[–]lambocinnialfredo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love this.
[–]ElToreroo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree this is also quite misogynistic and condescending
[–]Babnikwithgame 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Everyone has their own point of view.
[–]heysoundude 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“That’s, like…just your opinion, man.” Dudeism.com. Go get yourself ordained. And take it easy. 👍🏻
[–]lambocinnialfredo -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re right but he’s also right. I would disagree with how he phrased it (slightly aggro but I upvoted) but he’s absolutely correct.
Much love and good luck ✌️
[–]Chronfidence 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wtf is this incel shit. Good looking men are also common and they’re banging all the women you like right now.
[–]Babnikwithgame 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It doesn’t matter who is banging who, just focus on your on journey snd don’t pedestalise women
[–]fireaboveallelse 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Disagree with you. Everyone has value regardless of sex.
[–]Babnikwithgame -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This post is about guys who put gurls on pedestal, and don’t understand their own value.
[–]fireaboveallelse 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So the point in this and what should of been. Find your own value. She is valuable because she sees it and your valuable because you see it. One is not more valuable than the other.
[–]Babnikwithgame -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everyone has their own opinion, you have yours miss & i have mine. Good night.
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[–]fireaboveallelse 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Should of specified. Gender. I believe that everyone has a purpose in life. So that equals value. Purpose = value.
[–]GrandRub 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She is not valuable: you are.
why not both? every human is valuable.
[–]Babnikwithgame -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]GrandRub 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah. but guys can understand their own value - without putting other people down.
[–]Looksmax123 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
the market is the arbiter of value and right now it is telling me i am not very valuable
[–]FashionDickThrwawy69 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay so like I'm here right now too and maybe this is just copium but maybe it'd be helpful (to our sanity) to reframe that a bit
The market can only perceive "you" as the part of you that is visible to it
That is, people on dating profile judge you by 2-4 pictures and maybe three sentences
None of your skills, hobbies, passions, deeply-contemplated beliefs, or dreams come through with that
There are probably tons of people who would think all that shit is really pog if you knew how to communicate it
So yes maybe your "value" is shit but that is more a measure of marketing than it is the product so to speak
The outcome is the same but it means that it can eventually be changed
[–]MikeIV 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What about women who build themselves and have a mission?
This post is about guys who put girls on pedestal, and don’t understand their own value.
[–]MikeIV 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What about women who put guys on a pedestal? You didn’t specify.
[–]ElToreroo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Male here and I’m here to say this is really fucking misogynistic and chauvinistic and conversation merely ignored the fact we we live in a male dominated society
By your comment you just emasculated yourself.
[–]miaou_dubois 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Disgusting.
Yeah misogynistic too
[–]muffins685 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You’re either afraid or hopeful. No room for confidence in the middle. Find the compassion in the middle, and you’ll find whatever It is you’re looking for. If you want further advice, check out anything by Pema Chödrön. Your views will be challenged, if you want them to be.
[–]Babnikwithgame 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Only pu$$ies live in the middle. Be a Man.
[–]muffins685 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you a man if you have to say that? Also, are you a man if you have to qualify that you’re better than a woman? By the way… I am a woman. You’re the pu$$y.
[–]Babnikwithgame 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look miss, I am very open to challenge my views because that’s what I’ve done continuously in the past 5 years when i got into seduction community, there are so many fake gurus and bad advice which never works in real life. This is a seduction group not CNN that we have to censor our opinions. Mh original post was about guys who pedestalise women and simp about them which never get them any results. I’ve to apologize about the thing i said.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly
Thnx
[–]BeenWildin 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
/bboldth**
[–]Forsaken_Degree7260 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does a man’s money have value? The women I have dated generally didn’t make as much as I do that’s the way it is in United States but I see a lot of very pretty women than go out with guys that aren’t that great looking for money it seems you can’t even approach a woman unless she thinks you have money or a high earning potential it sucks
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