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Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-10-13T17:29:31+00:00

I think the idea is not to ignore them, but not to put give them too much attention either or else you come off as needy. It's a balance game. Give them a little attention so they know you're still interested, but not too much to push them away.

ladymicheee · 2021-10-13T17:57:09+00:00

I'd say there is something in me that wants to chase a guy who I like if he is ignoring me.

But maybe there's some confusion about it all

If a guy who i'm not even into maybe starts a convo or DM's me or whatever and then 'ignores' me, I just don't care of course. I won't chase him. I'm not even into him. (I think all of the tactics I see here fall at the same hurdle. There's no techniques that will make me want to sleep with a guy who i'm just not into)

I'm only giving my perspective as a female but I think a lot of the theory you guys read is half baked theories.

I'm not sure of the context in your example though. These are girls you are dating? Girls you are walking up too in a bar?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-13T18:15:00+00:00

That only works if they really liked you and were heavily invested in you.

If it doesn’t work for you it’s because they weren’t invested in you, didn’t really care about you to begin with.

It’s not a trick to get a girl to like you, if anything it’s a trick to make a girl who already likes you to like you even more because she has to invest more to get your attention.

but if she didn’t like you from the beginning, it’s like “who even was that guy, thank god he left.”

Twobithatter · 2021-10-14T02:51:08+00:00

I think this is old advice that used to hold up. Now women can just ignore you back and find a new guy by the end of the night. I had an old friend tell me she never locks eyes with a guy because then they think she wants to be approached. They know they can replace you.

MassiveRepeat6 · 2021-10-14T01:13:21+00:00

It's just thoughtless advice akin to throwing shit at the wall and seeing what sticks. And when it sticks, it's treated as ancient divine wisdom.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-13T17:22:53+00:00

If you talk to lots of girls, you'll get a lot of low interest girls like this.

No biggie..

Instead of ignoring them hoping they'll come back, the better strategy is to reach out to all 10-20+ of them with the same message like once a week.

Maybe she's bored, lonely, or horny, and over the course of the past month you've somewhat stayed on her radar, seem cool..

Until one day, she's like damn, I'm horny and want to fuck tonight, he seems like the best option, guess I'll go over to his place..

She comes over and you have sex.

Or maybe you messaged her a few days ago and she wan't interested, maybe she ghosted you like the last two texts you sent her, she hasn't replied in three weeks..

But today she's horny, she sees your message 7 deep on her text..

The other guys aren't answering, dragging their feet on meeting tonight, but your'e available tonight, you're her best option, so she comes over and you have sex.

If you want more girls in your bed, this is what you do.

But there's no right or wrong, some guys are too hard headed to do this, or they'd rather have a high interest girl meet them, then play the whole text game.

SpakleMcFrankenstien · 2021-10-14T00:34:54+00:00

Here's the problem with all the quick and readily dispensed one-liner advice here. It's not ever a one-fits-all solution, as presented, is wildly undercontexualized and pretty much utter bullshit without a proper explanation of why it really works.

Radio_Unique · 2021-10-14T19:10:30+00:00

just stay fronds on social media, and be awesome No need to chat or talk

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