Tinder date. It was going well over texts (setting up logistics & slight game) and I called her to set up a date.
She drove 30 mins to see me. She seemed DTF (through text). She wanted to come over. I told her to meet me at Chipotle (get some food to go while we watch Netflix at my place). I ordered some food & a beer. She decided she wanted to eat there cause she was starving. She ate while I drank my beer and we just had some small talk.
Shit hit the fan when she demanded I get her some water. I told her no. She began slamming the cup on the table and kept asking. I was amused at the situation and just laughed it off. After looking her in the eye and telling her multiple times to get it herself, she got up and went to get water. I thought she would let it go and realize that I was not going to be her bitch boy.
She came back and sat a seat away from me and began giving me the silent treatment. She's 25 btw & I'm 23. I, again, reacted amused and just laughed it off. She kept ignoring me and I decided that I was going to dip out after my beer.
She was giving me the silent treatment so I tried playing rock paper scissors with her. She flipped me off and started throwing napkins at me. I got my shit and left.
Immediately blocked her when I got in my car.
I'm really just glad we met at a public place and I only wasted 30 mins of my life on her.
I'm not sure what more I could've done before hand to screen her to see if she was loco.
My question is, what texts or questions could I ask before a first date to screen for a loony?
I wish I had caught that shit before but I don't know how I could've. She was replying quick to my texts, answered my calls, and drove 30 mins to my side of town.
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