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[–]KingoftheNorth412 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t message her again unless she messages you. If she wants to go out she will text you again. If not, then your suspicions are right (she’s not interested).
Don’t super like girls on those apps.
[–]TheSunshineMan 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This was less than an hour
Jeez how needy are you?
An hour? Really?
because honestly just liking my message and then not saying anything further is so low effort it makes me re-think wanting to meet up with her at all.
And you even said she was busy out at the bar..
Jeez..
Give the girl some space..
This is exactly the type of behavior that scares girls and has them running for the hills as fast as possible..
Come back here and ask this in 3-4-5 days if she hasn't responded..
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[–]5_7pickup 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You are very needy. Girls dont want guys who are needy and desperate.
He’s not an asshole, just giving you some hard truth. An hour of no response and youre here writing a reddit post about it.
Ok here’s what you do. You dont do anything. Wait til the day of the date and then text her “still up for drinks later?”.
If she doesnt reply then you got your answer she aint interested.
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[–]Ironic_Resting_Face 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s your attitude that needs an adjustment. Just that your mind goes to this place after an hour. I can be super into a guy and not text him for days. Maybe I’m busy, maybe I don’t have anything to say, maybe I’m having a bad day and don’t want to engage in that energy.
I also read in the neediness, and calling people assholes for giving you hard truths is a red flag that your head is screwed on wrong. Ask for advice, get some that resonates with you or not, take what you need to move on, reflect, rinse and repeat. = life.
[–]kjackrel -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're disagreeing with the guy who gives the best advice on this whole subreddit lmao. As someone who is guilty of this myself, I suggest you lay off and take time to respond to messages as this behavior fully scares off girls. I mean shit I once quadruple texted a girl without knowing any better and that was the end of that friendship. So message periodically, not several times within an hour.
[–]LoveMyChoppa 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Double text her if you want to or charge it to the game & move on.
[–]KingoftheNorth412 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Charge it to the game” … this guy fucks!
[–]Wise_Bit_86 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally, I think you messed up asking her back to your place so quickly. This screams fuckboy to women. She may have gotten turned off by this.
Also, most girls won’t feel safe coming over to a strangers place without meeting up in public first.
If she doesn’t respond, move on.
[–]tredollasign 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ghost the shit out of her! Smh lol stop wasting your time thinking about girls that are low interest
[–]roundcat44 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One thing with texts and in general with women that you want to avoid is not appearing needy.
[–]Voltz_got_a_potato 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is she seeing someone else? Give her 5 hrs and follow up on the message with something like. "Have you decided yet?" If she still doesn't respond then move on.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Suggesting she meets you at your place right away is a bit much imho. You have to build some trust that you are not a psycho serial killer.
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