It doesn't take long for a girl to decide if she's interested or not

SlyderKmK · 2021-09-26T00:23:00+00:00

Yes, this is true, and it's bc attraction really isn't a choice. You can usually tell right away if you are attracted to someone, or not.

2021-09-25T22:42:16+00:00

Don’t overthink it man. You can’t have bed every girl on this planet, rejection will happen.

All you can do is be the best version of yourself and if they like you then great if not then great.

BugHistorical8691 · 2021-09-26T17:46:36+00:00

PUAs just talk alot of fucking nonsense and then convince you that getting laid is some kind of rocket science to make you buy their fucking courses

they are internet marketers you fucking genius

600joe · 2021-09-26T11:18:34+00:00

The first success I had after my 600th back to back rejection streak was with a semi-famous IG co-worker in another country - took me 3 days and she eventually opened up to me.... (I literally tried every fucking method in the book, direct, in-direct, magic lmao fucking mystery bullshit, kino, and even social game with some of the other girls...)

The biggest thing I got from that interaction was if a girl is out with you and is constantly on her phone the biggest power-move you could do is to take her cell-phone away and literally put it in your pocket and goto the dance-floor and just dance together (after I did this she invited me to dinner and we went swimming together - afterward she came over to my room).

My first 300 rejections of my 600 streak were strictly direct-game, however after the 300th I talked with 2 other "PUAs" (one was a girl) and they recommended to focus on connecting which significantly improved my interactions.

earsurgery9 · 2021-09-26T04:21:20+00:00

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sukul123 · 2021-09-26T04:53:25+00:00

I totally disagree.

It takes guys moments to realize if a girls worth it. Nice ass and black hair? I'm in (Every guy had their own preference i.e blond redhead short tall busty etc). But with girls the more you expose and stay with them the better the chances of you ending together and taking it to the next level become. To girls they want authenticity and to know who you are. And at this point every skill you know, every new thing you can offer and every quality you have become a boon for you towards a girl slowly and steadily as you both share and interact.

JetPillar · 2021-09-26T03:44:42+00:00

It’s it the same with you? Why are you surprised?

earsurgery9 · 2021-09-26T08:45:39+00:00

You're right. They decide as fast as we do when decided whether we'd bang a girl or not. Game is not for attraction. It's not for making a girl want you. It's to help you close the deal more efficiently

IamWisdom · 2021-09-26T08:23:26+00:00

I don't think it takes them a few seconds, I think they give you several, if not many minutes to see if you'll fuck it up. Huge difference.

ProfessorZoom80 · 2021-09-26T06:30:21+00:00

This is why guys have to be direct to know if they like you or not.

scenesick2 · 2021-09-26T09:05:32+00:00

I agree it's not about what you say but how you say it.
But your thoughts on " It doesn't take long for a girl to decide if she's interested or not " is not a good one. But since you " have limited experience with approaching women and just with women in general ", it's understandable.

It's good you don't want to waste time on people who don't like you but you're completely ignoring the fact that people can change. It's great that you can say " I hate chess " immediately after you play it since you don't really enjoy it but 6 months later you might like it.

A girl that doesn't like you in 1 minute and 1 interaction will not hate you or be unattracted to you FOREVER. That's stupid to believe. Even if she does, does it really bother you that much anyway?
When I was a kid I thought rap music was stupid, during my teens I loved it, as an adult I love it even more.
Weezer's Pinkerton album got negative reviews in 1997 but now it's a cult classic, etc etc.

For some things you can instantly tell if you like or don't like it. Some opinions and feelings will change and some will not. It's different for everyone. There's no answer set in stone.

Greenface1998 · 2021-09-26T02:43:35+00:00

Have you considered getting a less gross hobby

2021-09-26T07:06:57+00:00

sounds like things incels say, but ok

Spirit-debt · 2021-09-27T00:18:47+00:00

🤔, i think you miss the point here , bro , there are three types of girls, yes ,.maybe, no. That approach only works on the yes. Girls, what about the maybe girls and also , i like having a long conversation, it forces me to be very witty and funny and clever . I don't want it to be too easy else it's boring

DanielFromCucked · 2021-09-27T03:59:14+00:00

What's your ratio of approaching to getting the lay?

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-09-27T21:29:32+00:00

There’s a thing called `talking your way out the vagina’. Ngl I’m a guy who get straight to the point, also the girl should be doing 80% of the talking.

Title	It doesn't take long for a girl to decide if she's interested or not
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Date	September 25, 2021 10:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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