I am afraid of cold approaches. Not because fear-of-rejection, but because I am afraid that surrounding people will remember me next time they see me. And that they will remember me as a wierd loner-loser that hovers around the streets and desperately searches for a girl.

I am so much paranoid that rather that im thinking about my how im gonna fix this girl, I think whether someone else is also on the street and is paying attention at my attempt. I only do approaches, when I think it would be natural/casual, like it seemed I was really going somewhere/ doing something in my day and not just lurking for a girl. Sometimes I do daygame for like 5 hours, but end up having only approached like 2 girls and a couple of interactions with strangers.

I even go to different cities each time, and look up how much people are living in that area and how far from my homecity and I try to calculate my chances how big it is that someone will recognize me and impact my social/work/family life or even general embarrasment.

This paranoia doesnt help, that my appearance is quite unique, especially because I have Middle-Eastern genes living in western Europe, making my perceived chances larger that I will be recognized. :(

What do I do about this? Did you guys have the same problem? What advice could you give me?