Sometimes I (24M) go out with bros and I feel like a beta male, like right now. They know all of the music on the pop charts, they went to high school together, I don't get all of the inside jokes and everything. It's not like this with all of my friends but with some it is. And my voice gets high pitched and shit and I feel uncomfortable. We even talk about the girls we match with on OLD and they seem a lot more confident and comfortable than I am about it. I feel like I can't recognize social cues either, which is probably part of my social communication disorder and ADHD.

I would guess that this kind of behavior and blandness will translate to my dates. I'm not really sure how to fix it. I'm into jazz, rock and 80s music. Where am I going to find someone forgiving of my personality. How can I fix my issues? I'm out of ideas, I just want to be more personable and less nervous.