So first date went pretty well, we got along really good and had good convo, she messaged me after the date that she really enjoyed it blah blah blah. So i try setup another date a couple days later but she flaked on me for what seams a genuine reason then i tried again a couple days later and she flakes on me again not sure whether is was real reasoning or not. Also forget to add that she took forever to respond to my messages and she sorta just asked the same questions day after day even if i was trying to make the convo playful. So i decided to stop chasing her and i though that that was the end, however she messaged me recently after 3 weeks of not talking and said Hey where have you been. Why has she messaged me again and whats the best response