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double_prong · 2021-07-14T21:40:58+00:00

Being a man is about taking those risks. Women don't want a timid guy, and they're probably talking about you as the hot timid guy already.

Be brave. Build sexual tension (teasing, eye contact, body language). Break the touch barrier. Seed the idea of going to your place with an innocent reason, and later harvest that idea to pull her to your place. Lots of touch, confidence, lead her to sex.

Agreable_Actuator84 · 2021-07-14T21:32:22+00:00

Book Rx: -No more mr. Nice guy -feeling good handbook -how I learned to be free in an unfree world

thelambofdeth · 2021-07-14T23:33:07+00:00

I can really relate. I'm the same exact same height, and I've had a few women approach me, some in a pretty overly flirty manner and I simply cannot escalate it. I certainly get the aspect of not wanting to inflame the situation if your area has a pretty compact size, but in situations like that it's more egregious to not escalate. Like it's literally what she wants. You have to be willing to risk being the subject of discourse for the reward. Thing is if they're going to talk, they'll talk regardless. Wouldn't it be worse if they talk about his talk attractive guy who isn't accepting their advances? That'll come of worse than in any way if you were to succeed with them.

If you have the height, looks, and seductive aura it makes no sense to take advantage of it. Especially since women are going to just want you to live up to it. You have to be willing to take that small risk.

CrabBucketSecurity · 2021-07-15T05:35:54+00:00

If you want to be a ladies man, then be that man and don’t pretend otherwise. It’s only if you act like someone you’re not that you’ll run into problems. If women believe you will form a relationship with them but find out later that you were just playing, then you might see problems start. Don’t promise anything you can’t deliver and don’t for a moment allow women to jump to false conclusions about you, be transparent about what you want. It’s not like you’d be the first musician and director to play the field. Women find you attractive, there are enough of them who want exactly what you want too, be your true self and filter for these women and you’ll have a lot of fun with minimal complications.

Sure, other jealous people might talk about you….to hell with those sinners. Simple

Papa_Musk · 2021-07-15T00:31:44+00:00

I think you need to stop taking yourself so seriously. You aren't that cool and important and you are just another human being. Don't do anything that would constitute as harassment and you should be fine. Just go for it.

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