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[–]guidefru 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Calling is anxiety-inducing to 18-25 year olds. Text them if they’re young. If they’re over 25-26, likely that you didn’t attract them enough during the time you ran game. Where are you meeting these girls?
[–]meogdon[S] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well some young folks do enjoy the video calling. As for meeting them, different places including on the street, in walmart and at work as well. What techniques do you recommend (especially with Georgia based women)?
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[–]meogdon[S] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I actually did listen and I don’t dispute them. What I’m saying that despite the age range their are some who still enjoy video calling believe it or not. Another thing, even if those you mentioned like the snap is less anxiety prone, it can still cause a backfire because it’s possible once they get to comfortable in that world, how easy would it be to bring them into the real world. Am I making sense?
[–]loofyd 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why does it cause anxiety ?
Asking because I'm also nervous of calling girls
[–]nevertextgoodnight 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cold approach is all about the initial interactions
You want to romantically push the interactions as far as you can
Maybe post about how the interaction went and ask for feedback. I think it'll help you more
[–]STD-Tyler -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Build a good Instagram and exchange it. It is 2021 bro.
[–]eonscrewedme 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Don't call.
Text, with the goal being to arrange a meet.
Girls don't like looking like goofs on video. They'll want to have make up on and all that. There certainly don't want to be surprised by a call.
The only reason people get cold calls these days is for some debt or some problem. Getting called is anxiety inducing for anybody.
[–]meogdon[S] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
That a good one but I think every girl is different in personality and video calling can be a great way to have a visual perspective of you as if you’re in the room with her. Ya feel me😉?
[–]eonscrewedme 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
No. You're going to piss off people doing this. Don't be weird.
[–]meogdon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You’re probably right about some and I know it may sound weird to you but you have to look at it from a human being perspective. Don’t you like when someone gets use to seeing you?
Edit: I’m not talking about surprising them on a call but letting them know in advance
[–]eonscrewedme 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I see them face to face in real life. That’s even better.
The only reason I’d want to video first is if I met them online and wanted to see whether I’d want to see them f2f. I give them plenty of time for the video call (Pre arrange it at a certain time) and only keep it to 5 minutes max. I basically just want to make sure our real life interaction is not going to suck. Like they are as cute as their pictures and aren’t weirdos or catfishes. Other than this what’s the point. Meet instead.
[–]meogdon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well again, the point is for them to get use to seeing you (pre planned of course) and you’re right real life is even better but video calling before that can be even sweeter by having them more excited to see you in person.
[–]eonscrewedme 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Whatever dude
[–]meogdon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just so we are on the same page, let’s say I meet a woman on monday and schedule a date for Saturday. It would be good to have a video chat let’s say a day before the date, that way not only do you get a feel for each other but she becomes more comfortable with you as a person before the actual date. This is can give you an actual jump in the “getting to know each other” phase. Am I making sense?
[–]eonscrewedme 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No. You already have a date. A video call has the potential to screw it up.
[–]iTopMostly 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Try voice notes, works wonders with women that there’s a connection with and you can feel emotions and intensity. Doesn’t work for all though, so keep digging in that bag of tricks lol
[–]meogdon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What’s in your bag of tricks? Care to share🙂?
[–]double_prong 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try to convert those cold approaches into instadates. If you must take a number, be sure to build plenty of attraction to avoid this problem. If you have enough time, build some comfort too.
[–]Legitimate-Lies 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gotta get with the times, text for logistics and “just call her” has changed. Unfortunately gotta learn to build rapport through social media these days
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