I'm 26 and I realized that I can't chase or hit on women because I have nothing to offer. I'm like a guy knocking on your car's window at the intersection without nothing to sell. Any advice?

hunterpua · 2021-07-02T19:05:37+00:00

If you can fuck and relate to a person then you have more than enough to make someone happy.

All those other things you mentioned aren't the cake, they're just the icing. The real shit is in the connections you form.

If you have the capacity to connect with someone and you have a dick that works then there are girls out there who'd love to be with you.

That said, what about what you want?

Don't lose sight of your own happiness and well being and understand that a pretty face and hot body won't be enough to fulfill those things, having some random warm body around to be sweet and romantic with wont either.

You shouldn't be too fixated on doing things for girls that you forget to look for girls who really do things for you.

Not just the physical act of doing things but also the way they are with you, whether they truly make you feel connected, comfortable, respected, safe, and cared for.

Don't take too much responsibility for winning a girl over that you forget that she has an equal responsibility to win you over too.

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Sundae-School · 2021-07-02T18:51:51+00:00

Idk, start seeing yourself as a person rather than a tool for someone's benefit?

AelfredRex · 2021-07-02T23:08:00+00:00

Get your own place, even if it's a tiny apartment. You'll be out on your own and you don't have to factor your mom's presence into the equation.

Doorbell23 · 2021-07-02T20:11:21+00:00

Seems like you have way bigger issues to address in your life before you even consider dating.

Dodechaedron · 2021-07-02T20:11:16+00:00

You have to fight, in life, for the things that you want, unless you were born rich. Get qualified by studying whilst working (hard), then change your job for a better paid one (hard) and go to the gym regularly (hard). If you don't fight somebody else will take your place and all the girls.

Leviathansplunge · 2021-07-02T20:29:32+00:00

My best advice is to get money. It ain't about the money at all, it's about the confidence that comes from supporting yourself.

Pick up multiple jobs, turn that into tuition money to train and have a career path. Talk to your local career center,, there are dozens of ways to have tuition waived or reduced.. When you make better money double it by setting up passive incomes.

Get whatever you want in life, it's easy when you stop making excuses to yourself. The most important thing is to know your convictions. You ain't advancing yourself to get women, you are doing it to give yourself a good life. Being more attractive to women is just a side effect of being a confident guy that has your life together.

kawaii_neet_bot · 2021-07-03T03:39:06+00:00

Then have something to offer.

Sorry dude but at 26 I would be more worried about moving out and getting a career than dating. I assume that you are probably dating girls around your age. Not having a life direction might be ok at 26 but you will be 27 next year and not having a life planned out is VERY bad when you're getting close to 30. Start working on your life first.

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