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How to maintain interest if you can’t meet up for over a week?

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-06-19T20:25:25+00:00

Unfortunately I've got family stuff and I've been hammered with work projects and she has as well so we can't meet for about 10 days. Would you...

FaithInStrangers94

June 19, 2021

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Title	How to maintain interest if you can’t meet up for over a week?
Author	FaithInStrangers94
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	June 19, 2021 8:25 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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I've yet to hear about a girl getting wet from someone's voice message.

Whatever got her interested the day she gave you her phone number, might not be there anymore a week later. She might not even remember you.

This is why socials are a very good idea. The people out here who are afraid of interacting with girls on their socials think so because they were most likely engaging in heavy orbitting on those and ending up in the friendzone or in boyfriend territory at best. But that doesn't make socials bad, that makes whatever they were doing bad.

Socials are great because they're the only way to stay engaged with a girl you only got acquainted with.

If I were you I would have texted her a few hours after I got her number, I would've made a witty remark about our first interaction, then proceeded to get her insta. Yet again, you're not orbitting her in there, you're just doing the bare minimum to keep her interested enough so that she will go out with you when you're no longer busy.

Whatever convo you're gonna try to spark over IM is most likely gonna be boring and turn her off so at this point you're better off not talking to her at all. Maybe you made enough of an impression on her the first time around and she will still go out with you in a week.

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