Sad because I had a lot of rejections

PrettyLittlePenguin · 2021-06-17T20:44:44+00:00

One death is a tragedy, a million deaths is a statistic. Same goes with rejection, pump those numbers till it doesn't matter. For that matter, try and get rejected can be a fun game to play to build that mental callous.

Pain_Tough · 2021-06-17T20:42:40+00:00

Sadness, depression. I’ve had it. It drives people away. I take an antidepressant and do everything I can in the natural to decrease my depression. It’s a bit counterintuitive at first but I’ve found that if I’m ‘selfish’ in terms of self care, exercise and diet, dressing a little nicer than is required for the occasion, it comes to me. In college, I didn’t even have a date per semester. I swore off chasing women and I knew it in my heart. I changed myself in ways that were objectively attractive but did not care whether I remained single. It started coming to me after a short time and it never stopped. I suppose my best efforts involve writing down ‘what is true’ about attraction and watching as many videos as I can about attraction. Kind of like being an anthropologist and seeing it as a science, keeping it a low stakes game to reduce the sadness and anxiety.

TheSack1 · 2021-06-17T20:34:18+00:00

See my post regarding geodes. Sack up bro and just go through the numbers. Why carry that bs? Grow some thick skin and plow right through. Youll be surprised how well that works!

silkPJson · 2021-06-17T21:45:27+00:00

It must be hard dealing with lots of rejections just remember it’s not always a reflection on you some girls just don’t want a boyfriend.

NeverG1v3Up · 2021-06-17T23:28:48+00:00

By understanding that rejections might not have anything to do with you. Your self worth has to come from your inside, not from things happening around you. There are hundreds of possible reasons why a girl rejected you (most common is that she is already taken), and only some of them involve you. Stop expecting results when you approach a girl and instead look at it like "ok, she looks nice. I'll just approach her and see, if she's actually a nice person and whether we're compatible."

Narcan9 · 2021-06-18T00:33:27+00:00

Flip the script in your head. Have some self-worth. When someone rejects you think, fuck them. It's their loss.

_Zouth · 2021-06-18T16:55:52+00:00

Same here. I just don't get how some can be turned down again and again and still have the energy to go at it again. Meanwhile I loose all will I ever had to try and just back off for weeks or even months before I can make another try.

Title	Sad because I had a lot of rejections
Author	supstoov69
Upvotes	9
Comments	14
Date	June 17, 2021 8:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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