What are some things you try to do daily to be the most attractive/best self?

OThinkingDungeons · 2021-05-09T03:01:09+00:00

Improving my body language has been the biggest life changing adjustment I've ever implemented. I don't specifically remember when I consciously changed it (probably slowly after years of martial arts) but when I read a book about body language I became acutely aware of things I HAD been doing in high school and why I got bullied so much.

Basically, I used to walk with my head down, shoulders slumped, hands in pocket and shuffle around. Now I stand tall, keep my head up, my eyes scanning my surrounding environment and hands by my side, or use them to gesture while talking.

You can try a small social experiment next time you're grocery shopping, minimise yourself with your head down (body slumped) and notice how people ignore you, but start standing up straight in their presence and you'll immediately notice they also improve their body language as they notice you. The effects are sudden and dramatic it's almost comical.

Twobithatter · 2021-05-08T21:40:48+00:00

Do a combat sport. Learn that you can be dangerous and youll start respecting yourself and demanding that others respect you. I’ve been doing combat sports all my life. I did it seriously for awhile and then on and off after. At a young age I wasnt scared of confrontation because if it got physical I knew I could defend myself.

Another thing to thats repetitive and almost cringe, at this point, is to never say you can’t. As soon as you say you cant you've planted the seed in your mind and have started accepting that you might fail. You’re mindset is already half way done. If you’re not sure dont say you cant just you’re not sure but you’re going to try your best. Now you’re mind knows its hard but you’re willing to give it your best.

Kidcouger · 2021-05-09T04:34:41+00:00

I found that keeping my room clean makes me feel good and boosts my confidence, I doubt I'll meet a beautiful woman on the street and bring her back to my place an hour later but it's nice knowing I have a clean place if that ever happened LOL

Also dress well everywhere you go, I don't mean Formal but atleast put effort in your appearance or wear a nice outfit

gbizzle2 · 2021-05-09T01:39:11+00:00

I keep these women off my pedestal on the daily.

Medical_Reflection · 2021-05-09T03:09:48+00:00

I would say having a passion especially one that makes a lot of money. Dressing well, good hygiene and exercise also can't hurt.

AggressivePea8176 · 2021-05-08T23:30:44+00:00

I like to shower and put on deodorant .

bad_toe · 2021-05-08T22:32:30+00:00

working out

90-95% of the "game" is about looks

smind893 · 2021-05-09T06:06:17+00:00

You're gonna laugh but an electric toothbrush changed the game. Lol Ok I'm laughing too,but it's true.

My posture, a routine for my face skin care, 64 oz of water a day and a hair care routine as well.

Interesting_Orange82 · 2021-05-09T08:06:22+00:00

Wake up, do my morning routine (coffee,smoke,shit), 30 push up, wash my tooth-face, put some deodorant, make my bed/room and go.

le_emmentaler · 2021-05-09T10:13:53+00:00

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False-Clerk-5073 · 2021-05-09T11:44:03+00:00

By having an undying passion and watching David Goggins and Conor McGregor's old videos.

throwaway9284837 · 2021-05-09T16:06:25+00:00

Lifting weights and learning about things that I am interested in and will help me irl

Title	What are some things you try to do daily to be the most attractive/best self?
Author	Thr__wayy
Upvotes	35
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Date	May 8, 2021 9:18 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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