How to overcome the fear of coming off as a creep?

kostasbras · 2019-11-25T22:18:07+00:00

Cold approaching is actually something creepy as it's opposed to sociaty's beliefs and there is only a very small amount of people who do that (1%).

But you really wanna live a mediocre life that it is applauded by the public opinion and abandon your dreams?

Take a moment and think why you wanna do this, how will that make you feel and imagine yourself in some months and even years. You should see two cases, one that you succeed and you are able to talk and share some beautiful moments with every woman you want and the other that you stay in your comfort zone and still thinking what would happen if you took action.

You can't overcome it if you don't try and fail, then learn and try in a different way. Taking action is the only solution.

If you wanna speed up the process find a mentor.

For any additional questions or info I will be glad to help you.

Execute. GG.

Atriev · 2019-11-25T21:14:47+00:00

A cheeky smile and an assertive tone of voice will usually dispel any feelings of being “creepy.”

Next, keep your escalation not too fast. If you escalate too fast, that can be offputting and potentially creepy.

amnic11 · 2019-11-25T21:11:17+00:00

If you would come off as a creep, what about you (appearance, communication techniques, delivery, etc) would give the indication?

PiperBigBell · 2019-11-25T21:18:33+00:00

Change your focus. Being a creep never comes in my mind. What you should be concerned about is 1. Am I empathizing with the person I'm talking to. 2. Am I reading her body language and tonality to well enough to gauge where the interaction is going 3. Am I carefree, feeling good in my own body, and having fun

2019-11-25T22:55:03+00:00

Coming off as a creep is bound to happen depending on the women you are approaching. Unless you say, “I promise I’m not a creep but I saw you standing here by yourself and you’re hot so I thought I’d introduce myself. I’m (your name) (go for the handshake to establish trust) and you are?” If you don’t know what to say after this then say just that and then proceed with whatever questions you have in mind. Sometimes it’s better to get what it is you want to say off your chest and if the woman is down to talk to you then you’re good to go. The good news is that you already have some prior experience with women so I’m going to presume don’t have the self confidence issue that men like myself who haven’t had very much success with women face. This means that once you’ve crossed this road, you should be good to go. No harm no foul.

DajuanKev · 2019-11-25T23:37:58+00:00

If your confident, it just depend on the women. Attraction is subjective. If you know what your doing and is a man about it, respectable to the women, there's no other way to go about it.

hoihohue · 2019-11-26T03:25:24+00:00

Um if it’s just a fear, you have to kind of be logical and figure out whether what you’re doing is creepy or not. Usually as long as you aren’t clingy and you aren’t being gross it isn’t creepy, and you just have to watch for signs that she isn’t going for it to back off.

manonpoint_com · 2019-11-25T23:13:50+00:00

Approach indirectly if you are worried about appearing like a creep, and then gradually get more and more direct if you so desire. Personally, I find indirect approaches are better in general anyways.

Title	How to overcome the fear of coming off as a creep?
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Date	November 25, 2019 9:09 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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