Hi guys,

I am in Colombia, Medellin, studying right now and meet so many new guys and (hot) girls everyday, it's really awesome. I am young inexperienced guy but I try to step up my game and make those changes.

One thing that I find amazing is that, since I meet so many guys and am in contact with new girls everyday, it's pretty much impossible to be stuck on one of them (oneitis) like I used to be in the past. This definitely helps alot.

I also applied some of the advice you guys gave me. For example, there was this girl that first acted as if she was very interested in me but then when it came to it she flat out refused any sexual advances of me, which confused me at first.

SO then I just didn't give a fuck about her since I was in contact with hotter girls.

ANd this is what she texted me recently:

Her: Where are you?

Me: At the mexican food stand

Me: Why?

Her: SO we could get lunch together

Me: Ah okay, another time then.

Her: Do you still have courses today?

Me: No courses anymore

Her: Then what are you still doing at UNi? -.-

Me: No answer

Shit works! Haha. Suddenly she seems to become more interested.

Also when I went dancing and I saw that a girl became attracted to me, I used to be a nice guy and sticck with her because I didn't want to hurt her feelings, but now I often just apologize myself and go dance and have fun with another girl and that shit works even better.

That being said, while I seem to be consistently able to attract girls that are like a 5 and sometimes a 6, and make them attached to me, I can't do it with 7 or higher.

For example, one reason why I didn't give a fuck about the aforementioned girl is because I am in contact with a way hotter one, she's like an 8.

Well she's supposed to be my buddy and help me with university. After some nice conversations with her I quickly started to become attached/develop some butterflies (fuck not this again). I realized that immediately and made an effort to stop it, because I know it never ends well. But the way I did it is stupid and a sign of my insecurity. We have a class together and in those classes I was straight off ignoring her.

But then outside the classes I saw her with some chad looking dude that looked like her boyfriend. We greet each other and he looks at me, I stand there awkwardly and don't understand shit she is saying to me (language) But this one I understand: Why don't you talk to me in class?

And off she goes with that chad looking dude. Fuck. The next day I text her and ask her if she wants to get something to eat. And she replies with ,,Yes, I would like that very much''. So we meet up but only for a short time since she had class in like 20 minutes, but here comes the point of this:

What I perceive as an inability to make those 7/8's ''like'' me just for who I am, effortlessly. See, it starts just even with me trying to lead. She annoyed/shittested me the whole time. ,,Why do you want to sit at this table?'' ,,Why do yo uwanna go in the sun? Are you cold?'' ,,I don't like sitting on the ground'' acting like a bitch. Then taking out her phone giving it more attention than to me. Then ,,I don't know what to talk about..'' trying to stir up conversation. Then we talk about a topic that interests us both: Music. She asks what kind of Music I listen to. She knows what she likes and tells me. I don't give her a straight answer which seems to annoy her as well.

And then she says this: If I want to meet with her when we don't have classes, and at what time I would be free. So we make an appointment for next Wednesday.

SO what do I do next Wednesday? Am I overthinking this? Why does she act like this (and she didn't in the beginning), annoying the shit out of me? Funnily it does seem as if we have things in common, or as if she is an interesting person. For example: Out of like 200, we picked the same course about music without knowing about it. So why act like this?