Particularly with longterm virgins. Is the cut-off age at 30, 35, 40, etc?

Just the answer to that question is fine.

For those who don't mind reading a bit more, head onward, after the jump:

Now, regarding myself, I am also a super hard-case and within the age range listed above. I will never have an acceptable life, that battle is already lost.

With that standard lost, the hurdle then becomes to "get past the shame" and "come out of my shell"--that would be the best I could do. The idea is to hope that would be "good enough" and hopefully, it wouldn't matter that I'm 35+ and cannot live as a basic citizen, cannot have a traditional 9-5 career. If I'm mostly looking for something "light," it wouldn't be necessary to be the "serious provider guy" right? So that's the optimistic take.

The other take is of course, it's already over for me, given the state of affairs, the way things work, you're just not going to find anyone looking for the autistic "outcast" guy who can't compete, etc.

So, again, when is it too late? Under what situation does "maybe possible" turn to "simply impossible"?