How to Setup a Date After Getting a Number During Daygame

Vibez__ · 2018-05-05T19:06:24+00:00

Firstly do some DayGame and texting research. What I've learnt is that it's a bad idea to want to meet up straight away via text, makes you look too thirsty. The absolute best way of setting up a date is to plant the seeds when you first approach her. A basic daygame model is: Approach, open, Assumption, stack, vibe, investment, close, or something to that effect.

In the closing stage, that's when you need to get info on when she's next available. When she's invested into the convo and you've had a good 5 min chat or so, say 'well I've gotta go, and you've gotta go, but we should grab a drink sometime. (She speaks and says 'sure')

'Great. I'll take your number and I'll shoot you a text later. What days are best for you?'

This leaves her completely wide open cause as she's just agreed to a drink it would be odd of her to then say 'well I'm actually busy for the next month', so she should then state a day and a rough time estimate like early afternoon. You then say great, me too, let's do 2pm on Thursday afternoon. ' then you say your goodbyes and give her a man to woman hug with one arm, two is a bit too much. Or if you're really suave, a man to woman handshake and pull her a little bit in for a light peck on the cheek. Don't do this if you feel as though you'll be awkward, a one arm hug is fine.

It's as easy as that. Now she has plans for Thursday afternoon and she's made a real life commitment to it, she's less likely to flake. Plus you did some kino on the close and women are more susceptible to guys that can touch a woman without being awkward.

zfgee · 2018-05-05T23:34:33+00:00

Good work but set a date on the spot next time. Much higher chance of it happening if you set it then and there. Instead of ASKING if she wants to go out, do this:

Approach
Banter
"Let's grab a drink, when are you free?"
She'll tell you when she is available if she likes you (if she doesn't know her schedule, just number close)
"Great, let's make it 7pm Thursday next week."
Hand her your phone so she can enter her name and number
"I'll text you the details"
Leave
Text her the exact day, time, location and sign off with your name.
Do not contact her again until the date.

Title	How to Setup a Date After Getting a Number During Daygame
Author	AstralSurfer11
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	May 5, 2018 6:46 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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