Men that don't seem to care about sex after TRP

abudun79 · 2018-08-08T18:32:14+00:00

The chase is better than the catch.

Once the chase became like flower picking it's not that much fun any more.

It's common to desire most what you know you cannot have and once you drown in it, the desire fades away.

Liu_Wang · 2018-08-08T17:42:03+00:00

boredom. he probably wants to focus on self-improvement so he can fuck more and/or hotter women

oytrp · 2018-08-08T19:12:28+00:00

Eventually you realize they are just detours in your mission.

When you become the man you want to be, you'll have abundance and can get laid with ease.

MattyAnon · 2018-08-08T19:52:39+00:00

, to not giving a shit about women entirely.

It's like oxygen. You don't give a fuck so long as you have enough.

The other factor is sometimes our desires are ego based. With the ego fulfilled, there can sometimes be little other motive.

jiveraffe · 2018-08-08T19:42:48+00:00

Familiarity breeds contempt and at the end of the day there isn't much difference between one pussy and the next.

More often it would be easier to crank one out and get on with the rest of the day than to put the effort into pretending to care about some thot. ROI.

Declining hormones is probably also a factor.

Black_m0ngoose · 2018-08-09T01:40:57+00:00

There's no challenge anymore.

Men who are not challenged cannot grow.

Original_Dankster · 2018-08-08T21:47:45+00:00

MGTOW is the natural evolution of older Red Pill men. At some point you realize the satisfaction you get from sex is fleeting, and that women offer little but sex.

Is that a natural reduction in testosterone with aging? Wisdom with lived experience? The self-assurance that he could lay more chicks than Mother Goose if he wanted to, so his ego no longer needs sex for validation?

I'd say a little bit of each.

This isn't anecdotal - I was a mod on a major MGTOW forum for a number of years a few years ago. I left that forum, being one of the few who shifted from MGTOW to TRP, but there were a lot of older men who were very successful sexually who joined up and told their stories. Part of the process of joining was you had to write a short bio to the mods; and I read them all. Probably read nearly a thousand over time, and I'd say about 60% of MGTOW I encountered were betas who got wrung out in divorce and gave up, 20% incels, and 20% Alphas who had stopped chasing tail.

HIJKelemenoP · 2018-08-08T22:41:10+00:00

MGTOW and having the ability to get laid twice a week are not mutually exclusive. Women can be a headache. They aren't loyal, they bring nothing to the table, they take from men whether that be children, money, property...and they aren't interesting to talk to for the most part.

recursoinominado · 2018-08-09T04:23:49+00:00

I don't see the benefit of investing so much time and energy to fuck some random chick that i don't even care about. Most of the time, the sex isn't even that good, if i feel an urge, i simply do a quick jerk off and i am good. But to be honest, i dropped most of my attachments like money, fame, sex, drugs etc.

redisthetruth · 2018-08-09T04:44:38+00:00

We just realize our mission in life is way bigger than any woman or relationship. We use our creative drive and sexual energy to be the best version of ourselves and do whatever we came on earth to do. Chasing women is so unimportant in the grand scheme of things — takes time and energy away from being directed in our mission —unless that mission is to sleep with a bunch of women, which I find quite boring and pointless.

This is not to say we don’t have sex...it means our perspective on life and relationships and the physical act of intercourse changes. I find the physical act becomes just a fun distraction mostly and not the main purpose.

FatmanO · 2018-08-09T08:26:28+00:00

Same for me, looking trp as self improvment not as sex

moltenw · 2018-08-08T22:13:50+00:00

I'm talking could get laid twice a week easily has a line forming attractive but isn't interested in doing anything with women

That is mgtow.

bitterconsultant · 2018-08-09T01:04:31+00:00

Supply and demand - diamonds are so valuable because they're scarce. Pebbles have no value, so you focus on more important things.

I am by no means at this level, but have about 4 women on call if I ever want anything, and a few weeks ago had 3 ONSs in 7 days ...

That changed something in me; kind of feels like they have to be extra special to get my attention, and just a much bigger internal interest for other things (like focus on my hobbies, family, friends, alone time watching a movie with a cup of tea).

Serious_Tour · 2018-08-09T01:53:37+00:00

law of diminishing marginal utility

Most introductory economics books cover this

Title	Men that don't seem to care about sex after TRP
Author	Arima779
Upvotes	17
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Date	August 8, 2018 5:31 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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