/r/relationships supports marital rape

PraytoAres · 2014-03-23T18:03:41+00:00

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BoyMeetsHarem · 2014-03-23T20:56:21+00:00

Consenting to sex under false circumstances is not rape. Get that stupid bullshit out of here.

2014-03-23T19:59:37+00:00

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AfterC · 2014-03-23T18:18:43+00:00

Good on OP in that thread. He's keeping level, particularly in his edits.

Gentlemen, here is a wonderful example of the marriage trap. Check the edit in the thread. His wife admitted she will fucking clean him out if he divorces her. Alimony and child support, for three kids.

I don't think a judge will even care that she fudged her birth control in an attempt to get pregnant despite his wishes. The warning here is wrap your cock, because no one will step up to bat for you if it's too late.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-03-23T21:22:31+00:00

Do I have this right?

If a woman fools a man by lying about contraception then it is HIS fault for not wearing a condom.

If a man fools a woman by lying about having a vasectomy it is HIS fault for raping her.

If a woman claims she is on contraception then he must give her all the cream pies she demands or it it is HIS fault because the man does not trust her.

If a man wants to wear a condom when the woman "claims" she is on the pill then it is HIS fault because he does not "trust" her and she needs to leave him for not "trusting" her.

Hmmm, is there a theme to all these wildly diverging claims?

Remember: It is ALWAYS the mans fault.

VarsitySlutTeamCpt · 2014-03-23T18:43:50+00:00

This is like the same thing when the dude tried to poke holes in his condom

watersign · 2014-03-23T19:01:28+00:00

Sounds like his wife wants more children so she can get more money out of him. She threatened him with alimony.

loner7 · 2014-03-23T22:45:09+00:00

Plot twist: the 3rd child is not his.

PraytoAres · 2014-03-23T18:15:10+00:00

Bunch of fucking twats replying... I can't read past the 10 comment.

No one even needed surgery. Bitch pulled the goalie without her husband consent. The saying he should get a vasectomy doesn't even fix his current situation and is fucking irrelevant as it possibly could be.

Ghadis · 2014-03-23T19:16:43+00:00

These people are insane. My mind is blown anew every single day that I read these comment threads.

hashtagpound2point2 · 2014-03-23T20:32:06+00:00

This all sucks for him, but the married man doesn't get much freedom or sympathy once he puts the ring on. That's the path he chose to take.

Tarnsman4Life · 2014-03-23T23:46:52+00:00

Didn't they just throw a man in jail up in Canada for rape because he unknowingly to the woman took the condom off and got her pregnant?

Same should apply here.

long-lostfriend · 2014-03-24T03:31:56+00:00

Why would he need to tell anyone he is dating that he had a vasectomy?

wheyproteinisolate · 2014-03-23T21:05:52+00:00

He should just call the bluff and get a lawyer to serve divorce papers. I doubt his wife is actually serious. She's just acting like a spoiled child in order to get what she wants: child #3 with her husband's support. If I were him, I'd serve the papers and act real cold all the time.

Duh_Mad_Botanist · 2014-03-23T21:58:19+00:00

I wouldn't call it "rape" but definitely theft (of sperm), fraud (leading him to believe she was on birth control), and extortion (using the aforementioned theft and fraud against him for personal gain). I use rape in the strict sense in an effort not to be like women who think every perceived slight towards them is a form of rape.

Fundumpsters · 2014-03-23T22:26:30+00:00

"He shouldn't have worn that dress!!!!"

dave_is_not_here · 2014-03-23T23:16:46+00:00

Has anybody ever taken one of these, reversed the genders and reposted it a few months later?

I think that'd be interesting. Especially when the new OP got to do a reveal and compare the responses.

Jaws_Elevator · 2014-03-24T06:04:49+00:00

You say this is rape, but it isnt. That sounds like feminist rape culture. He was simply having (most likely consensual) sex and she did not take birth control due to the fact that she wanted a third child. Despite her becoming pregnant against his will, he was not raped. I still feel really bad for the guy though, especially since it's apparently putting their marriage in jeopardy. We can only wait until a male form of birth control comes out that isn't a vasectomy. While women do bear the responsibility of childbirth, I think it should be a shared responsibility between men and women to use birth control or not. With both sides doing their part it will help prevent more cases like this from happening.

2014-03-24T09:13:21+00:00

Divorce game and abortion game are real. It's fucked up, but the idea is to compromise a person's sanity / emotional wellbeing to the point where they cannot function properly and they have a breakdown. Women do it all the time, often encouraged by their lawyers. Little shit like randomly changing custodial visits at the last second, changing shared bank account passwords, having an affair / faking one to provoke a fight, gaslighting, etc. A classic move is telling the guy the wrong time, then telling the kids that Daddy couldn't make it today, and then telling "Daddy" that he can't talk to the kids when he does show up. Drives the guy insane, gets him to do something like take his kids out for ice cream at a non-approved time.... and the mother calls the cops.

You must, as with all types of dealings with women, understand the sociopathic game they play, and use your superior emotional composure, logic, and killer instinct to play the game better than they do.

You have to be brutal and amoral. For example in this guy's shoes, the main issue is to remove her threat of divorce (neutralize her leverage) and then get her to have the abortion. Convince her that you are A-OK disappearing - put all of your joint money into solo accounts and just bluff, plain and simple. Pretend you have it all mapped out, where you will go to, say you have a job lined up there. Have a friend come confirm it to her. If you bought her car, sell that shit on craiglist and deposit the $. Show complete dedication to the idea that you are A-OK with the divorce because you will leave the country with everything, she will get nothing.

In the mean time, you start dissolving her sanity. You constantly act chipper about your new life you will be moving too, taunting her about how she cannot do anything about it. You tell her that everything you pay for is being cancelled. Cut the cable, change the wifi PW, cut her phones if you pay for them. Isolate her from her friends - if you bought the computer she uses, sell it. She loses methods of contact with her friends, who are always the ones egging her on and supporting her emotionally during this time. Fuck women in her bed - appear to want the divorce more than she does. The minute you do this (want the divorce more than she does) she is thinking to deny it to you.

Once she is begging you not to divorce her, then you go after the second item on the agenda. Convince her you will divorce HER for the semen-jacking, tell her you are going to burn her. Tell her you are going to be leaving and she will get nothing - keep telling her that she will not be able to provide for the 3 kids, she will be pregnant and abandoned, no friends, no money, nothing. Her kids will see her as a failure, they will hate her.

Then you introduce the carrot on a stick. "Things could go back to normal. Remember how it was, before all the fighting? No, it probably can't. It's done, bridges are burned. I have to leave. I'll be gone by (set date)." You keep building up a neural link between her having an abortion and her getting to have you back. You sell her, high pressure sales style as you get closer to the date. If she does this, she can have you back, you will provide for her and your kids, you will be back to your old self and while you will never forgive her, you will devote yourself to being a decent husband and father for the sake of what's right. Women eat up that shit - the idea that there exists simple erase buttons, a control Z, for the major fuckups they cause.

Then, after the abortion, you go drop her off at McDonalds, tell her to get out, and you say she will be hearing from your law. The trick is that you have to get her to actually believe that you are 100% capable and happy to disappear on her, and that you can vanish all of the money she thought she would get. It is a hard sell, which is why you honestly have to be either sociopathic to begin with to pull this off or very dedicated. You have to be ice cold, 1 weak fuckup will ruin a month of meticulous progress.

All men need to learn abortion game and divorce game. Yes, askreddit, I'm saying men need to learn the art of convincing women to have an abortion. It is sad but true - in this society, the only way a man can get out of a catch-22 divorce or child support rape situation is by... basically mental torture. The same mental torture that gets guys to kill themselves 2x as frequently as women, especially male divorcees. The isolation, the feeling of your entire reality no longer existing, your security stripped, your memories lost, your home now a battleground. A woman cannot deal with this, especially with you upping the heat everyday - she will crack and go into her instinct to preserve what all women value more than $ - a sense of normalcy, validation, social approval, social support, security, etc.

Anyway, long rant, but at the end of the day, your kids are looking up to you. Imagine this guy's 2 kids watching their father bend over and take a societal ramming. They will grow up and think they are supposed to wife up a girl and let her walk over them too. If you have to destroy the mind of someone you once loved - your ex-wife, wife, even a GF / babymama to be a good example of masculine power to your kids, it's goddamn worth it, every single time. Show them that a man will fight back with every tool he has and win at all costs.

sting129 · 2014-03-24T13:57:20+00:00

The wife's actions are deplorable, but you know what? That guy is a fucking idiot. His wife straight up told him she wanted another kid. He should have started using protection or taken his reproductive rights in his own hands and had a vasectomy.

batfish55 · 2014-03-24T16:23:01+00:00

Fun fact: if you're married, the husband needs to obtain written permission from his wife in order to get snipped. In california, anyway.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2014-03-23T21:45:47+00:00

MRA flare?

Title	/r/relationships supports marital rape
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Upvotes	13
Comments	51
Date	March 23, 2014 5:56 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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