Negging- do you like to do it?

Kitt_55 · 2016-12-06T08:40:45+00:00

"As previously discussed, a nice guy’s actions can often be interpreted by a woman as an attempt to buy her affection. Thus inversely, being disrespectful to a woman is the clearest way of communicating that you are indifferent to her opinion of you. After all, a woman who has not read this book would likely find it hard to rationalize why a man interested in her would be insulting. An insult can sub-communicate to a woman that you are not trying to impress her or are emotionally dependent on her validation. Thus the woman will not sense that you have an agenda and will be more likely to trust what you say as being honest.

While I do not advocate actively insulting women, you should not be filtering your true thoughts and beliefs in an attempt to impress a woman or tell her what you think she wants to hear. When a woman senses that you are stuck in your head and filtering your words, she loses the sense that she can fully trust what you say and realizes that your emotions are dependent on her validation.

Conversely, when a woman senses that your emotions are not dependent on her validation, an immense pressure is removed from the interaction. Through removing one’s filters and ceasing to seek approval, you will gain the trust and respect of most women. In general, women will more often be intrigued by your honesty than upset that you don’t share same exact opinions as them."

-Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight

I would say Negs in the form of playful teasing are fine. But I would not purposely insult people to get a response. There is really no need. If you are not seeking reactions for what you are saying, and speaking honestly and unfiltered, then your conversation is going to organically have negative and positive emotions within it.

PUA_Mobius · 2016-12-06T10:21:11+00:00

In the classic sense of the word neg, the PUA community has largely outgrown it.

Teasing however, is still pretty valuable and there's a distinct difference between teasing a girl and outright negging her.

msmiitz · 2016-12-06T14:09:25+00:00

Don't neg something doesn't feel right about it in my opinion.

w0rst_case_0ntari0 · 2016-12-06T15:22:20+00:00

Negging is a trick for people who lack a personality and need to compensate for their lack of value by bringing the girl down to their level.

james-robertson · 2016-12-06T11:03:41+00:00

Negging got totally blown out of proportion, and never seemed like a good idea anyway. Kitt_55's answer is good.

The_Music · 2016-12-07T03:55:40+00:00

Negs work great on shy, younger girls. Confident girls tend to deflect them.

Title	Negging- do you like to do it?
Author	Tonytj
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	December 6, 2016 7:07 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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