From approach to convo. How?

Blackouttsi · 2016-09-08T12:54:44+00:00

The weird thing for me is that if I strike up a convo. I get this "don't ruin it" fear.

I feel like women can be nice and have zero attraction. I sometimes feel like I would be a jerk for ruining that "nice" moment into something less platonic. It's like when someone says hi to you and then a second later they are trying to sell you cable tv. That bait and switch kinda feel.

It's all in my head I am sure

TheXXL · 2016-09-08T08:09:45+00:00

Observation. Does she have a unique pendant? Is she wearing something uncommon? Does she remind you of someone?... Tell her. Assume things and see her reaction, then build up on that. For instance, if she looks like she's studying, you assume that :" you look like you are studying, I bet it's something really boring, like math" or "I like your necklace, it reminds me of a vacation I had once in... Have you ever been there?"

Ask questions or make statements about things you can observe on her, those are the things she can relate to, and most like she has a story behind it she would love to tell you.

Gustav_Sirvah · 2016-09-08T09:58:41+00:00

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MindsEvolve · 2016-09-08T16:01:51+00:00

"What are you doing today besides waiting around for awesome guys to approach you?"

Try that and see how many conversational seeds it opens, while keeping an air of banter going. PM me if you need help.

totallynevi · 2016-09-08T21:07:11+00:00

Comment something about them. It doesn't have to be a compliment necessarily.

Ask something random. My best conversations started off as random things at first. It has to feel funny and ok for you to say tho.

Blackouttsi · 2016-09-08T17:38:04+00:00

See, the frustrating thing is that it is not always. Just sometimes when I get caught off guard

I have done outside sales and even had a job where I had to take random photos of people during MLB games. 35,000 people to walk up to and interact with. I even have a girl force me to kiss her once, she was hot though.

We are all working to get better, that's the lesson

Title	From approach to convo. How?
Author	Gustav_Sirvah
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	September 8, 2016 7:24 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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