Last night a girl I hooked up with from my class invited me to go out with her and her friends. Since it was going to be 3 of them I decided to invite my friend as well who attends another class at the same college. I'm 17 and he's 19. He's a really chill guy that's really hilarious and I very much enjoy his company. He's the type of guy you can just shoot the shit with and discuss deep topics with as well.

Just so y'all know, I am a relatively attractive person. Last week, I had a random group of girls across the street compliment me on my looks, yelling that I was cute and asking me for my name. I'm an athletic individual and although I may not be jacked, I do have a nice body with visible abs. Compared to my friend, I'm certainly more attractive (sorry for coming off as conceited/vain).

When we went out, my friend looked like he didn't wanna be there. At times he was constantly on his phone, had a bored look on his face, and really just looked anti social. But at other times, he'd start cracking jokes, saying hilarious shit and overall just being tremendously funny. He scolded one of the girls for snap chatting too much saying he doesn't want to be on camera and then dissed her on her looks (which I thought was ballsy af).

I began attempting to game the most attractive girl of the three (although the one from my class is also considerably cute). I began teasing, playing with her, giving her subtle compliments which she seemed to get off on. She was sending me indicators of interest so I kept implementing the same tactics as well as employing some light kino. We all went out for a smoke after and I went out to get a pack.

I'm not really sure what happened in that time I was gone but just seeing as how the girl I hooked up with from my class was looking at him, I could tell she was into him. I was pretty happy with that, thinking we're both gonna to get lucky tonight. We went back to the bar, and as I sit with the girl I've been hitting on, I noticed she's became a lot more intoxicated prior to 20 minutes ago.

I still play around with her but I'm starting to notice she's sending IOI's towards my friend as well who's sitting across from us. And out of nowhere she leans in and asks me if I could ask my friend to switch seats with my friend. I was kind of dumb founded for a few seconds, I'd be lying if I said that it didn't do some damage to my ego. I told her she can ask him herself. So she leans across the table and whisper something in his ear to which he says nothing and just shakes his head. She does it again, and his response remains the same.

I pretty much give up on this drunk girl and we go out and join the crowd of other students outside. I notice a few guys I knew and we start talking and after I'm done, I notice this dude already gaming some other girl and getting her number. By then, it was time to leave seeing as how our dorm curfew is 1AM so we get an uber and go home. In the car, I decide to ask him what the girl told him and he told me she asked him to switch seats with me and later said, "I'd fuck (my name) but I'd rather fuck you instead".

I was pretty baffled by that entire situation and now I'm trying to analyze just what happened. I've always thought that just being attractive and fun to talk to was sufficient to getting laid but I guess there's many other factors that come into play. The fact that he managed to so effortlessly win over both of the girls perplexed me. Is it his "no fucks given" attitude? The fact that he's a hilarious guy with a complex personality? I just don't really understand. Although he doesn't look like he'd be the alpha, the way he presents himself certainly states otherwise.

Keep in mind I'm by no means resentful towards my friend. We hung out and ate some food for a few hours, had a few laughs after that whole ordeal and talked a bit about our personal lives. I really like this guy, he's probably one of my closest friends here at this new school but I can't help but feel a slight hint of jealousy/envy which makes me feel disgusted with myself. I'm sorry if I came off as some egotistical, elitist asshole when writing this but I used it as an outlet of some sort just to get out of my head. I'd appreciate some advice on it. Thanks for reading this long ass rant.