Sexual innuendoes are great, if a woman leaves that door cracked even just a little, I’ll bust it wide open like the Kool-Aid man.

There are many types of sexual innuendoes. In the above example, I never articulated sex. Therefore, unless the girl chooses to articulate sex, sex is never articulated. But the girl knows, as well as you, that the underlying message of the interaction is sex.

A large category of sexual innuendo is to imply that the girl wants sex.

By implying that a girl wants sex, you accomplish the following:

  1. You're parading yourself as an attractive mate, but you aren't explicitly pursuing her. Therefore, she can't reject you. More importantly, you avoid the problem of coming off too creepy, which sometimes occurs with direct sexual language.
  2. By teasing her, you focus attention on her as a fun sexual being.
  3. You set a fun, sexual tone for the interaction.

It is important to note the difference between these sexual innuendoes and direct sexual language.

Example.

Girl, "It's hot in here."

Response A: You know - one way to cool down is to take off your clothes. Response B: Girl, you can insinuate all you want, but I'm just not going to take off my clothes for you!

Response B is more subtle. I generally prefer Response B.

Or Response C: I know it’s hot in here. But that’s no excuse to take off your clothes.

Sexual innuendoes play into cocky & funny, too:

Example;

Girl, "I shouldn't hang out with you so much." Me, "Well, it's not really your choice, is it...I'm just too sexy to resist."

Example;

Girl, “I shouldn’t come over, it’s late.” Me, “Why you don’t think you can keep your hands off me?” Girl, “Well I’m not having sex with you!” Me, “Good, I feel much safer now. I can keep my virginity.”

Random examples. -“I want to quit using sexual innuendos, but it’s hard….so HARD. -“Sorry I wasn’t paying attention, I was fantasizing about pinning you up against the wall….” -“Since the 1st time I saw you I knew I was going to have real or imaginary sex with you.” -“That sexy dress is making me feel a little uncomfortable, could you please take it off.”