Why You Aren't Getting a Second Date | 7 Surprising Reasons

gradcasanova · 2019-07-09T14:16:15+00:00

Here's the TL;DW:

You take it too seriously - You make the date too formal either through the idea (like going to a nice dinner) or the way you act around her

You don't get her invested - You don't make an emotional connection, and she doesn't feel like she actually knows you

No sexual tension - You're too platonic and fail to break through and make things sexual

Failing to lead - You don't lead her and make a move in the right timeframe, and miss your chance

Pushing it too far - Trying to go all the way when she isn’t ready or comfortable. This one is counterintuitive. If you can get to sex, that's great, but if she stops you right before you get to that point, it can kill the sexual tension for the next time around and give her cold feet to meet up again.

Weak follow up - Trying to text her ALL day the next day, or waiting 3-4 days to contact her

Not seeding the 2nd date - not bringing up a potential second date idea while on the first date

0urlasthope · 2019-07-09T16:31:32+00:00

Damn this guy usually bores me but I needed to hear all this.

H8CourtshipALot217 · 2019-08-22T05:33:44+00:00

why do you think so many guys are clueless as to how to lead? don't know how?

Title	Why You Aren't Getting a Second Date \| 7 Surprising Reasons
Author	gradcasanova
Upvotes	13
Comments	7
Date	July 9, 2019 2:10 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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