What does seddit think of buying drinks for people?

Lovvel · 2012-02-03T14:12:53+00:00

The whole "never buy a girl drinks" I don't think should be taken as a general rule, rather should be a situation specific rule.

For example, girl you've just met asks you for a drink. Fuck that shit.

Girl you've spoken to for a good ten twenty minutes, and you are going to get a drink, it's good social intuition to offer her one, this raises value.

But if your sitting there talking and she's like "so do you want to get me a drink" again, fuck that shit. I usually reply with "yeah go get this round, I'll have a Pepsi, and I'll get th next."

puaCurveBall · 2012-02-03T08:21:40+00:00

For your level: Don't buy drinks. Just don't do it.

After you master pua you can do whatever you want, but the simple advice to carry around is never buy a girl a drink, get her to buy you one.

Segis · 2012-02-03T09:54:46+00:00

Don't buy drinks. My go to response when I'm asked for drinks is getting her a water.

Demonstrates higher value and will always bring a smile or laugh

JRAlpha · 2012-02-03T10:37:34+00:00

If you have her showing clear interest and committing value it can be done. But if not better not to do it. I generally don't. I either get them a water or I try to flip it on them and sometimes I get a drink.

dark180 · 2012-02-03T20:10:00+00:00

it depends, follow this rules:

1.Are you buying the drink bc you want to open her, impress her? -Dont buy the drink. There's a bunch of AA's out there willing to to this

2 . Are you buying the drink bc you are having a great time with this person and you have known her for more that 30-60 mins.

-buy the drink, let her get the next one.

3 . Did she ask you to buy her a drink?

-If you are on a date then yes

-If you are not on a date then no

Bonus answers if you dont give a shit and want to have fun:

-Get her what she wants (i.e. vodka & sprite) tell that to the bartender and when he starts making the drink turn to the girl , look at her up and down, and go to the bartender "you know what, make that a diet sprite and vodka".

-do the five questions game or thumb wrestle and get her to buy you a drink, the 5 question game has only failed me once.

glassuser · 2012-02-03T17:56:26+00:00

I'm going to have to disagree with some of the other men here. Of course, if you're just starting out, then don't buy them drinks and try to get them to buy you one. But after a while of playing with that, stop caring. If you're engaged in conversation with a girl and you need another drink, get yourself one and ask her if she'll have one. If you're not ready for a drink, don't bring it up. If she asks, say you're not or ask her what she's getting you. The point is, don't make a big deal out of it.

Why_You_Trippn · 2012-02-03T17:47:11+00:00

Drinks are for friends. The most important thing you should be doing making sure your bros are having a good time. In a club woman are easily replaceable so treat them as such. Never buy them a drink unless you came in with them.

bcktth · 2012-02-03T14:45:19+00:00

buy it if you sincerely mean it and have a good rapport with the person, don't buy it if you feel you're entitled to something in return or feel you'll win your target over.

VLDigital · 2012-02-03T21:56:24+00:00

Well, I think this could be a good opener.See hot babe, offer drink.If she says "Yeah", good. If she says "No", I just go:" Well, I think you're really cute and had to talk to you. The drink was just an excuse".

I actually did this with a cigarette(I quit a while back).She was smoking outside, went over and asked for one. I lit up, then smiling showed her my pack:"I have my own actually, I just did that so I could talk to you."

She smiled, we fucked later.The end.

Title	What does seddit think of buying drinks for people?
Author	herrodoggy
Upvotes	11
Comments	14
Date	February 3, 2012 8:03 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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