A guy being to clingy?

BlackMarmoset · 2018-08-21T14:09:45+00:00

There is a reason if we call it Sex Market Value (SMV), it's about offer and demand.

When a girl distances herself, she's lowering her availability (offer) to the specific guy. If the guy chases her, he increases his demand for that specific girl.

Now the girl see herself as much higher value than she is while the guy loses it, and she thinks she made the right choice dumping him. If if things play out this way, she did.

Always keep the demand low, a beautiful girl should be a plus in your life, not your goal.

KeffirLime · 2018-08-21T14:45:10+00:00

Clingy is a polite way of saying they displayed the traits of a low value man.

Lack of abundance, over investment, oneities, operating in her frame.

They were probably doing what blue pill programming told them to.

Show affection. Be caring. Be available. Cut out other women. Tell her how much she means to you.

All this does is give her excessive comfort. She has zero anxiety or need to work to keep the man invested because he has shown how deeply invested he is. The fact that he's so into her means he probably thinks he's hit the jackpot, which leads her to question if she could do better.

So off she goes to find a man who she needs to work for the attentions of. Because if she's the one working for HIS attention, then he must be a high value man.

heyuguyzbrekfazt · 2018-08-21T14:38:33+00:00

The guys very well may have been clingy, but the fact that they gave you vague answers, is an answer in and of itself.

Something I've noticed with women, is they love to drop the clingy line about partners, even though they are clingy themselves. Women will also bitch and complain either way, one day they'll be crying that they aren't getting enough attention from Chad, then they'll be bitching that they don't have enough "me time" when they get the attention they wanted.

askmrcia · 2018-08-21T16:33:50+00:00

I learned from previous experiences that girls will always blame the guy for breakups.

I've been called clingy before by a chick I dated who told me I didn't text her enough or made enough plans with her.

I've been called an asshole before by a chick who literally texted me that she thought I was nice guy and just didn't see it working out. But to avoid blame (she was seeing another guy while with me) she told all my friends that I was the typical asshole she dated.

Where I'm getting at, unless I know a guy personally I don't pay no attention to what any woman has to say about the guys they dated. I never in my life seen a woman admit that she was the reason for a breakup.

The guys may very well have been clingy, but your cousins still dated them despite them "showing signs" of being clingy on the date.

My point is don't pay attention to what women say and watch what they do. I don't know your cousins, but I'm pretty sure they have other guys in their pipeline that

RPGivesYouWings · 2018-08-21T14:04:31+00:00

They don’t have their own identity, their own mission, nor vision.

These guys were appendages to the lives of their girlfriends, and these women want to be added on to the life of a high value man...

Title	A guy being to clingy?
Author	wartorle
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	August 21, 2018 1:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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