Ok so being permission seeking is clearly a negative thing to have. It is negative programming taught since growing up as a child.

I know that this aspect has affected me in the field with women and even with friends etc.

When I want to act out of my own accord, at times I will ask if its 'cool if i go downstairs and check around' 'is it alright if i stay in here a bit longer?' Hopefully you guys get the idea, but i can post more examples if asked for it. I feel some sort of subtle fear or anxiety if I do something and don't ask about it first. Now this isn't for everything obviously.

Now how does this relate to seduction and attraction? Well over the weekend I was getting really strong signals from this girl that I was attracted to. Clearly she was attracted in me, as she made a lot of moves on me. In pua terms, she was kino'ing me first, even made out with me first and was giving massages etc.

Now the problem I have is i want to escalate it to the next level obviously, as I feel there's a solid connection between the both of us. The only problem is that this per-missal seeking aspect kicks in when I want to make the next move. Say she makes out with me, then after a bit, I want to make out again... I'm nervous to just go in for it. Instead I might have to ask her timidly, or totally avoid it at all and miss out on any opportunities. Whereas she just goes for it.

does anyone have any advice, methods etc of removing this negative aspect? How can i remove the fear, or at least understand its nothing major if i act in a certain way, specifically elevating sexual tensions with women?

Thanks in advance, good luck all