Hey /r/seduction, I'm in my second year of University and I've been part of your community for awhile now but never submitted anything. Here goes:

I have the confidence to get a girl back to my room after a night of partying (2 girls so far this month). Now, usually that's the hardest part, since they're going back with you it's presumed that you're going back to f-close her. But, this is where I freeze up. Like, we'll go back to my place to watch a movie, and then I'll end up actually watching it with her until the ending. If we were having an interesting conversation earlier in the night, I'll end up finishing it up and never making a move. I've seen girls go from turned on and ready at the beginning of the night to totally cool and wanting to leave by the end of it, without so much as kissing.

I don't know how to start things in the bedroom. I'm always used to other people initiating- so when I try to do it on my own, it feels awkward, forced, and my lack of confidence totally turns the girl off. I'm a virgin and have never f-closed before, but I get frustrated because I feel like I've already gotten all the hard work done (actually getting her to the bedroom) but always trip and fall over the last hurdle. All the previous girls that I've been mildly successful with have initiated contact, and I can go along with that, but I really want to start pursuing my own interests instead of settling for whoever pursues me.

There's 2.5 months left in the semester - I hope it's not too late to change my old ways.