What next after Pickup? (Or what you want out of the Game?)

alexryane · 2010-12-08T10:55:41+00:00

There is no out.

Once you realise that you can spend your life having sex with lots of different women you will realise that monogamy is not really a serious driving force of male biology.

While I'm single I have sex more often than in most long term relationships. Sex is more fun too - I never get bored, I always see more than one girl, I never have sex with the same person twice in a row. Arguments and mood swings are rarely an issue. I feel my life is exciting every single day and I meet someone new at least once a month.

In the last 30 days I've had sex with 6 different women and hopefully 2 more in the next few days. Some are hot, some are really hot, I keep aiming higher, 'HB9' is always my next hit, 10 is my mythical dragon. I'm motivated by the fact that I will never run out of women or nationalities in this city.

I no longer feel anxiety on dates. Before a first kiss I feel a rush, like MDMA. I used to spend a large proportion of my life worrying about my girlfriends mood swings and anger and 'problems' and our future. I've not followed a girl around on a stupid fucking shopping trip or listened to her talk about the colour of our blinds for 2 years. I love the company of women, I love how cute they are and I love going out with them but my god I cannot live with them 24/7.

I don't want out, I'm addicted, I don't know if I will never be faithful again, or what faithful is, or if I will ever truly be in love again. I'm sure I will dip in and out of it but I have formed a protective shell around my personality and I am struggling to not become arrogent self centered bastard. I vaguely remember hating the kind of person I have become. Really I was just jealous.

sigloiv · 2010-12-08T06:33:03+00:00

I've always wondered this too. I don't know if this is PUA blasphemy to say, but I like monogamous relationships. I understand the whole idea of the Hopper, but at some point I want to have one person with whom I invest my time. PUA is way to improve my social life no matter what, but I think at some point I want to stop using it to pick up women.

philosarapter · 2010-12-08T15:19:36+00:00

Being able to coerce people into doing what I want.
California.

chumpta · 2010-12-08T07:53:04+00:00

i dont see myself going anywhere once ive achieved my many "goals" if you could call them that, but i do see myself coming. eh? amirite fellas?

/cheez

i feel like this question is analogous to someone asking "you've just landed your dream job, now what do you do?"

you get to fucking work is what you do, and you enjoy it. you enjoy the work you do and you enjoy getting paid for it. you enjoy new challenges and you enjoy becoming better at your job everyday.

the goal of pickup isn't to have a goal, it's to have a skill. so that if/when for some reason, something goes awry and you lose your woman - perhaps you were complacent, perhaps she was an incredibly talented and covert gold-digger, or perhaps the spark just died - you can get another. or perhaps you relish in hopping from one to the next.

roxxe · 2010-12-08T10:59:28+00:00

teach it to your afc friends

my_seddit_throwaway · 2010-12-08T19:59:00+00:00

My goals is to have a better understanding of women , relationships, social dynamics and the ability to read others and be able to influence them.

I always thought that if I could have one superpower it would be like "The Shadow". I could read minds and implant my thoughts into them. It's funny but since I started reading PU material and material about social dynamics and thought influence and all this I learned that I can develop this "power". Not to the extent that I could do it 100% of the time. However when I'm "doing my thing" my afc friends refer to it as "jedi mind tricks". My alpha friends joke about having "Jedi" powers too.

2. I see myself finally getting what I want out of life. Honestly. yes that process will probably involve cultivating many relationships with many different women. It will also involve a lot of hard work and determination. I am surrounded by guys who are married and the "forever alone" types who are so unhappy / frustrated with life it reinforces in my head that I MUST keep doing what I'm doing. I spend 25 years as an afc going through bad relationship after bad relationship getting stomped on and treated like a bitch. Those days are long behind me.

cheddarchexmix · 2010-12-08T21:26:51+00:00

Being able to meet lots of cool people in a short time, dating cool women. I am still mostly an LTR guy, but I've dramatically raised my bar for who I would be exclusive with and haven't found her yet. I'm about to move to a new country so my goals there are to use my skills to make some awesome friends.
It's a journey with no end for me, I just want to keep refining my skills. I still have at least 2 years until I'll be close to where I want to be in terms of my potential.

sig904 · 2010-12-08T05:36:15+00:00

isn't the "goal" open ended? You continuously always improve. No finish line just a path to follow and see where it goes.

Title	What next after Pickup? (Or what you want out of the Game?)
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Date	December 8, 2010 5:14 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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