Seducing women that you actually want to seduce?

FailFaster · 2010-12-31T20:19:37+00:00

Granted, I haven't drunk deeply from the seduction community's wisdom, but I... _________________

Drink deeply. Then post questions. A good place to start is the side bar.

Seddit/seduction are really all about improving one's own attractiveness through behavioral techniques and high-level shifts in perspective from follower to leader.

2010-12-31T20:03:10+00:00

Night clubs are an excellent place to practice. You can meet women elsewhere, and when you do you'll be better prepared to read them and make the right moves.

jamba_juice · 2010-12-31T20:07:56+00:00

Actually a lot of what I've seen on seddit, as far as FRs go is not at the club. It's usually at bars where you can at least hold a conversation. Club pickup is a bit different, where its more about sexuality and getting close fast.

Read up more, and apply only what you think will help you. Not all of it is going to stick with you personally.

azaaaa · 2010-12-31T20:42:23+00:00

you can use pickup on any woman. If you're shallow and want boobies...go get boobies. One of the key elements of pick up and/or leading a good life is to be interesting and interestED. That's a key issue. You WILL get to know the people you seduce. If you don't like what she's telling you...don't seduce her....you shouldn't be attracted to her than anyways.

Pick up is a set of tools, it's not a set of preferences.

chumpta · 2010-12-31T21:38:31+00:00

If I only cared about sex with hot chicks regardless of personality, I'd just see prostitutes. It's way more efficient.

hahahah well that depends on how much money you make.

pickup can be used for any type of girl, and any type of relationship that you want to start. just gotta make some personal tweaks is all. i got an analogy that i used in another thread that ill use again - like walking into the ocean, you start shallow - walk in further and you get deeper. you don't walk up to a girl and ask her how many kids she wants and if she has any baggage related to any sexual abuse. but if you want to get there and it's working out from shallow stage 1, move to shallow stage 2. before you know it you'll be up to your eyeballs in a sweet, sweet relationship.

uh. also you're aquaman and can breathe in the water.

afcanonymous · 2010-12-31T20:19:58+00:00

Go find those women and seduce them, then. It's all the same concepts.

2011-01-01T11:30:17+00:00

I get the impression that a lot of seduction is devoted to picking up women from the club scene.

You've got the wrong impression. Seduction, per se, isn't targeted at a specific type of woman. While it's true that most of the material you'll find around is about the club scene, the concept of seduction itself has nothing to do with it... and it's the concept that really matters.

Seduction has nothing to do with the canned material and shotgun advice you've probably come in contact with. Deep down, as weird as it sounds, it's about how to communicate with women effectively - as in, understand what they want and what they feel and make yourself explained without words (women HATE words). But I digress.

I myself despise the club scene as a whole and, after the first phase which consisted basically of one night stands, I've used seduction to create and keep long term relationship running - with women that are pretty much the opposite of your classical club whore. Which kind of woman you want, that's not important at all - the concept is what matters, and that works with all women no matter what context.

throwawayrarst · 2011-01-01T15:16:18+00:00

Practice on everyone so when one that makes your legs turn to jello comes along you can cruise on autopilot.

Also you should be less shallow. Give people you normally wouldn't consider a shot. You'll be pleasently surprised.

glassuser · 2010-12-31T23:16:51+00:00

Start with seducing vapid sluts. Work up to random pick-ups. After a while of that, you'll have fine-tuned your social skills and your confidence will be at an all time high. It won't hurt to eat right and exercise more while you're at it.

Once you get there, turn off the game. Just be yourself, backed up with those new skills and confidence. It will make a world of difference, and those will make the difference in beginning real relationships with quality women.

Title	Seducing women that you actually want to seduce?
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Date	December 31, 2010 7:59 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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