2 dates w/HB8 and already I know that we're a great match (I have learned to make good perceptions of people very quickly through my job). I'm in the game to meet one special girl, and I think I have. That said, she wasn't the only one on my roster. I have a first OkC date tomorrow w/HB7 after about 7 messages back and forth (she even asked me out). HB8 and I are not "going out" "exclusive" or really have any label at this point - we're taking it slow to develop a relationship. That said, I'm thinking strongly of cancelling the OkC date. I don't believe in actual karma, but in my history, every time I make the "good" decision (in this case cancel) I feel better about myself which translates into a better relationship with the girl I like. Every time I make the "bad" decision (not cancelling and "playing" them both), the opposite happens. Even if nothing bad happens, and our relationship develops, I'll know that I second guessed my feelings early on and eventually it will become an issue (even just emotionally for me). OkC is a definite f/close even before I meet her. But it's not what I want now. I'll still continue sarging just for fun and to stay sharp, which will also make me more attractive to my potential gf. And if things don't work out w/her, all those girls will still be there.

So my question is: do you guys put PU on hold if you find something worth stopping for?