I say the following as a straight man who's been working on his game. I don't claim to be some expert in seduction, just good at it and getting better. But one unconventional way I've helped to up my game, and I would recommend it to guys in the early stages of learning seduction, is to go to a gay bar and let gay guys hit on you. I know the very idea may induce fear and nausea in many sedditors, but I'm secure enough in my sexuality to not have it threatened by being around a lot of gay people.
It's very much a through-the-looking-glass experience. You get to see exactly what it's like to be on the other side of the interaction. What I learned from doing it a couple of times is the difference between someone who's creepy and someone who's charming. Some gay guys were downright creepy and overly-aggressive about it, even after I told them I'm straight. But there were some guys that were really charming and genuinely a pleasure to talk to, and even though they were trying to close me, I never felt like I was being pressured to do so.
So Seddit, what are your thoughts on this? Have any of you tried this? I'd love to hear from the more experienced PUAs to see what they think and whether they would recommend this to rAFCs.
EDIT: I even told some of the cooler gay guys what I was there for, and in addition to thinking that was really awesome, one of them even told me all sorts of great little tips for girls. He even took out his phone and called a really hot friend of hers and told her to come out. Pretty awesome experience, overall.
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