I can't close

Soupertramp · 2011-02-13T08:09:44+00:00

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PyouA · 2011-02-14T01:20:24+00:00

Most likely this means your not comfortable with your own sexuality. To a lot of people having game just means starting a good conversation with a good looking girl. It might look nice at a party or a bar, but it will be tremendously frustrating in the long run. The convo should have a sexual vibe from the start and you should never be afraid to let a girl know you want to have sex with her (as long as you don't let her know like a chump).

Think about it like this, would the most alpha-ladykiller guy you can think of ever be reluctant to advance toward a woman? Of course not. You didn't give me much information to work with, but my guess would be that this is a problem you have with accepting your own sexuality (as a super-alpha pussy magnet) and the resulting neglect in developing both the verbal and nonverbal sexual threads in the conversation usually leaves the woman not fully attracted.

You probably are talking to these girls and they aren't sure if they are supposed to be entertained by you or want to fuck you, don't let there be any ambivalence.

I also second 60 years of struggle .pdf for your situation even though I think they aren't are good as people say, his method is big on making a sexual impression first. Also if you aren't familiar learn the Dicarlo escalation ladder - that fucking thing is gold.

Edited for grammer. Would also like to add that I was in the same position. What I did initially was settle for number closes, lots of them. Then I went old school and courted these women rather than attempting the same night thing. Lots of extra work, but once your sexually active with a few women all the above comes pretty naturally.

unsexyMF · 2011-02-13T19:28:11+00:00

Find a torrent of 60 Years of Challenge (4 PDFs). Read it. It'll help you with pulling the trigger.

Title	I can't close
Author	Soupertramp
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	February 13, 2011 7:44 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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