Why doesn't Seddit have more program routines for getting in the field?

gpua · 2011-03-23T01:14:45+00:00

Have you heard of the Stylelife challenge? It sounds like what you describe. It's a 30-day exercise that I believe was part of Neil Strauss' Rules of the Game. I'm not too familiar with it, but I think it works like this: Every day, for thirty days, you are given a short lesson to read and learn, and also a task or challenge to go out and perform. It's goal is admittedly small--I believe that its claim is only that you'll get a follow-up date by the end of the 30-day period--but it is still good exercise for those that can already get follow-ups.

I think the reason you don't see fitness-style programs for seduction is that they are unnecessary. All you need to do is read seduction theory a little bit, and go out into the field a lot. This is important; every mPUA says to sarge more often than you read about it. Most recommend at least three or four times as much. I've heard different ratios.

Besides, I see these programs all the time, and I'm sure you do too. They are all basically the same thing: go out and talk to girls. In The Game, there's a part where someone makes it a goal to approach 1000 girls in a week. I've seen plenty of guys around here say they were starting a plan of talking to one girl every day, or making x approaches in a night, or getting blown out of set y times in a night. In Mystery's Venusion Arts Handbook, he recommends the regimen of going out into the field four nights a week, for four hours each night, making three approaches an hour. I've seen a handful of other programs by mPUAs that require monthly payments in return for things like monthly DVD lessons and goals, and membership to their forums, etc., claiming that after two, three, six months, a year, you'll be a true PUA.

There is no shortage of programs for getting in the field. It's just that everyone has different sticking points, so no one specific program will work for every person, except for going out and talking to women, which is all any of them boils down to anyways.

ComfortablySensitive · 2011-03-22T21:06:55+00:00

If you lift a weight, eat right and give you body time to recover - your muscle will grow. If you run everyday your cardio will improve. There really isn't much negative here, you will improve with practice and go back to your normal level without it.

Our psychology is much more fragile than our body. As a general rule, it takes 3x positive experience to equal one negative experience in effect. So I would argue that it isn't really as cut and dry as a workout routine. You need to change your ideology first, you need to not get worried about getting blown out, not let the approval of women matter to you that much - then you have reached a level where you could start a routine. But I would guess that 90% of seddit just isn't here yet, so most of the posts will likely continue to be about ideology.

Bobsutan · 2011-03-23T04:57:05+00:00

I built a 4 week program for AV members up in Baltimore. I think this is a good structure to follow as it crosses that 3 week line for developing a habit and it gives you plenty of time to go over all the basics.

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fxkrq/science_of_sex_appeal_some_notes_from_this/c1jf6yo

ImKumarYo · 2011-03-22T22:22:03+00:00

Seduction is far too dynamic and unique to each person for generalized programs to really be successful. There's a reason bootcamps usually have like 6 guys. It takes a lot of special attention to fix everything necessary. Lifting or running, though difficult in their own right, are much easier to create a program for the public.

RedErin · 2011-03-23T17:33:19+00:00

I know exactly what you mean. I usually tell newbies to try the thirty day challenge when I think it would help. Sending them out on missions is a great way to get people out in the field.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-03-23T01:27:21+00:00

I thought this was what we were already doing. Notice up in the seddit sidebar, the description says, "The reddit self-improvement and seduction community."

Title	Why doesn't Seddit have more program routines for getting in the field?
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Date	March 22, 2011 8:54 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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