tldr: Wife was upset, needed to break her current frame to get to le sexy time. Took her on a walk. Picked her up and threw her. Walk to the park. Have her sit on ridiculous child's rocking horse play structure. Instigated pine cone throwing fight. Raced out of park. Had her chase me and I used some juking moves on her. Started jumping challenge to see who can jump higher. Had le sexy time.

Background:

Long time reddit lurker here. I bought David DeAngelo's Double Your Dating back in high school but I was too much of an AFC to use it. Eventually dated a few girls in college, met my wife, everything turned out better than expected. Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss and then found Seddit. Now I want to be a more confident man, sexual, social, better looking, etc and use it to respark my marriage and life. This shit works =).

Long Version:

I remember a post from a few weeks ago that linked to a Tyler Durden forum post about how women attempt to break their frame. Basically, you engage her and bring her to a better state through cocky/funny/playful...and the last option as physical. Tyler's post only regard on physical frame was hitting her, and it works well with women who have low self-esteem. But that is clearly out of the question. However, you can still use physics to change her frame by:

  • Removing her from her current environment
  • Physical competition (jumping contest, running contest, etc.)
  • Picking her up physically and tossing her
  • Playing physical games with her such as tag, horse-shoes(?), pine cone toss, etc

I imagine all of these things can be used on a date as kino and keeping her in a playful loving state.

Go forth and conquer Seddit!